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Is she actually the girl in her profile?
This girl is fake or terrible time management. We planned date for around 8:45 p. She tells me she will be there around 9 p. I end up getting there around 9:10 p. She tells me she is 10 min away. I get another message telling me she can't find her heels. 20 min pass, so I leave. About 5 min later she tells me she is waiting in the parking lot and tries to call me. I told her things never end well when it goes like this and wished her luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6fd412e2-89b8-4d56-90ba-11c0975e7be3
She told me I need to be more understanding on being late. I probably was being a bit extra, but if she can't make it on time for the first date, I can't imagine how the future dates would go.
Anyone have experience with this one? Feel free to DM me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1802530-990c-46ee-925d-60b13a38c7f0
Natefarwell
06-02-24, 00:20
Guys: I have been talking with this one on and off for some time. Schedules do not align but texting is great. She does seem to be in Chicago often. Any info would be great. Profile name is Studiosandselfaware.
Thank you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef4ab09-d002-4fb9-b2c6-127e05f5fa90
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d18f135-5738-40fc-bf28-c5a641bf886d?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
BeNewAgain
06-02-24, 18:43
Anyone have experience with this one? Feel free to DM me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1802530-990c-46ee-925d-60b13a38c7f0So she seems to be real and is prob reliable if you're willing to pay what she asks. I think she was asking for a high amount. I was staying at a hotel in the suburbs one time, and we started talking the morning I was about to check out (I was trying to get one more lay in before I left the hotel LOL), and I talked her down to a lower allowance. Then I feel for the stupid little $20 gas money scam. I know better than that. She was prob upset I was low balling her and I figured I deserved it which anyone that send anything upfront absolutely deserves it. Oh well. Give her a try.
Hey. Does anyone recall which gift cards work for SA membership?
Thanks.
Hey. Does anyone recall which gift cards work for SA membership?
Thanks.No gift cards for SA. They got smart. Last time I tried I failed.
She told me I need to be more understanding on being late. I probably was being a bit extra, but if she can't make it on time for the first date, I can't imagine how the future dates would go.I hate that with a passion and also will walk. Wish more guys would so this crap would come to a screeching halt.
RusselJimmies
06-05-24, 14:01
Been out of the game for a couple years. The pickings today are slimmer than an anorexic crackwhore. Seriously considering DM sliding on instagram and tiktok as an alternative to this ghastly dungeoon, but lack experience with that kinda game. Any success stories or advice on what kinda social media profile you need to make it work?
FruitNinja
06-05-24, 15:08
Been out of the game for a couple years. The pickings today are slimmer than an anorexic crackwhore. Seriously considering DM sliding on instagram and tiktok as an alternative to this ghastly dungeoon, but lack experience with that kinda game. Any success stories or advice on what kinda social media profile you need to make it work?It used to be like fishing with dynamite. It's become a bot farm. I'm out after this month. They keep messaging that I have to update he pictures from an account that I've had for years. Now I can't log in anywhere but my phone. Scammers!
Been out of the game for a couple years. The pickings today are slimmer than an anorexic crackwhore. Seriously considering DM sliding on instagram and tiktok as an alternative to this ghastly dungeoon, but lack experience with that kinda game. Any success stories or advice on what kinda social media profile you need to make it work?Or OnlyFakes. So many time wasters now. Takes a while to find someone real. Used to be easy, you could find a date or two every day.
Haven't been on IL- SA much as a new project has me every other week in Austin which has been amazing market both on SA and escorts. It is truly a mongers market there and prices are economic compared to IL and the what you see is what you get! Haven't had any issuss there.
Unfortunately, be careful with these new Single Name new profiles. Before itnused to be two words with capital letters to start each word all together, example: HumbleActress, now they are using feminine real names example: Emily.
Hey everyone. Been in Chicago a couple of months since having moved from London. I know you guys complain about the scene here but in London the scammers and prices are out of hand, it's all relative I guess. Anyway, some recent engagements:
Dreamy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2de06e48-39b8-496a-a593-f86359a199d7
Immediately adds on snap. Pretty sure she'd meet and said open menu but never got round to a meet.
[Deleted by Admin]
Kitsune.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07b017b9-f492-4bc5-a6cc-e8a6d788596c
Pics a little misleading as not as cute in person, but super short and petite (under 5 ft). Colombian and going back in August. BBBJ however toothy and bad at it LOL but maybe cause her mouth is small and I'm above average. Cfs she is quite passive, not a great fuck tbh - 250 plus an uber home.
SensualMuse.
https://members.seeking.com/member/95792a71-5428-4b9e-b91f-4b3d98f4e2cc
Never got round to a meet again but seems up for it. If anyone has any info on her I'll pull trigger.
SpookyBoo.
Terrible attitude and really grating personality on text. Blocked me in the end cause I wouldn't pander.
Gummyworm7.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e5d0a94a-1ab9-4c4a-abf6-99ca95b9d68e
Little big bigger than pics suggest. Arranged 225 for BBBJ only but after a bit of head she wanted to fuck. Cfs round 1, BBFS round 2. Knows how to please a man, she's a great fuck, daddy dirty talk and amazing head. Will see again I hope.
Juyceyolive.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec255db1-e6b8-44f2-b246-d9c5ad826b16
Not met, any info? Like her bimbo look but also said she isn't a cheap hooker.
Sophie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c0052e64-7597-45aa-8833-d1cc7bdec2c1
Wanted 300 to come through. BBBJ and BBFS provided you have a clean test. Didn't meet and she isn't replying after I had to bail for work so good luck. Colombian.
There were a couple of other that I ghosted that have since blocked me so sorry I can't report properly. I'm also planning a few more this week and next so will share more when I can.
Al Melrose
06-06-24, 00:21
It use to be State / Same State (Illinois, Illinois) as City, State.
Now I see State / Different State (Ohio, Illinois).
FruitNinja
06-06-24, 06:39
Or OnlyFakes. So many time wasters now. Takes a while to find someone real. Used to be easy, you could find a date or two every day.I had one recently ask $600.30 something with a body that looked like a tube. Zero curves. Years back that would have been $200 tops and she would have been grateful that someone actually wanted to do her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ecad4fb-1b0d-427f-b42a-77d07ef5afbf
No intimacy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e5dc8fb-16eb-4d89-a59b-7c00de9c6d02
700 must meet in the south loop area, plenty of attitude. Pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f57117d8-df62-41ec-ac7f-74bdb10bc70d
Made plans, confirmed at 350. Then moved back the time and ended up ghosting.
https://members.seeking.com/member/615ea303-8b29-4b0b-aa45-ea5dc82af695
Started chatting late Saturday night, seemed cool. All over fetlife with gangbangs. She is freaky.
https://members.seeking.com/member/df8f28eb-f754-4bb3-b0d5-262c9aa00bd3
Seemed cool. But in wrigleyville withe no car, so not realistic for me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/550e4348-667a-459c-9cda-28459e8db3c5
Wants 300 at the beginning of a meet, then another 300 as a tip at the end.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be58d922-e5d5-43b8-9031-6e15ed839e93
Chatting a lot. Seems like a time waster.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1802530-990c-46ee-925d-60b13a38c7f0
Complete time waster. Started chatting, showed interest in meeting up but went silent when started talking about details of time and location. Asked for money for dinner before we met.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b686f1c9-e9d4-47ce-b5b4-a9a5255ee887
Saw her a while back, use to be in the west suburbs. A little bigger than her pics (last time I saw her). Definite train wreck of a life with a drinking issue. But she was a freak, open to anything you wanted to do. Saw her a few times, it was fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/823851a1-db82-4aa2-899d-eeb788b01431
Another one I saw a while back, not as attractive and a little bigger in person, but very freaky and open to everything. Did not repeat.
Started checking SDM, but have had zero success on there so far. Hope you all are doing better than I am.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ecad4fb-1b0d-427f-b42a-77d07ef5afbf
No intimacy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e5dc8fb-16eb-4d89-a59b-7c00de9c6d02
700 must meet in the south loop area, plenty of attitude. Pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f57117d8-df62-41ec-ac7f-74bdb10bc70d
Made plans, confirmed at 350. Then moved back the time and ended up ghosting.
https://members.seeking.com/member/615ea303-8b29-4b0b-aa45-ea5dc82af695
Started chatting late Saturday night, seemed cool. All over fetlife with gangbangs. She is freaky.
https://members.seeking.com/member/df8f28eb-f754-4bb3-b0d5-262c9aa00bd3
Seemed cool. But in wrigleyville withe no car, so not realistic for me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/550e4348-667a-459c-9cda-28459e8db3c5
Wants 300 at the beginning of a meet, then another 300 as a tip at the end.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be58d922-e5d5-43b8-9031-6e15ed839e93
Chatting a lot. Seems like a time waster.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1802530-990c-46ee-925d-60b13a38c7f0
Complete time waster. Started chatting, showed interest in meeting up but went silent when started talking about details of time and location. Asked for money for dinner before we met.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b686f1c9-e9d4-47ce-b5b4-a9a5255ee887
Saw her a while back, use to be in the west suburbs. A little bigger than her pics (last time I saw her). Definite train wreck of a life with a drinking issue. But she was a freak, open to anything you wanted to do. Saw her a few times, it was fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/823851a1-db82-4aa2-899d-eeb788b01431
Another one I saw a while back, not as attractive and a little bigger in person, but very freaky and open to everything. Did not repeat.
Started checking SDM, but have had zero success on there so far. Hope you all are doing better than I am.Therese is definitely fun and open to whatever. She's been around, might have to make a trip to IN.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2eacaf6-380b-4a7a-802f-32c761a2cbe2 Meeting this one tonight, anybody have some experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2eacaf6-380b-4a7a-802f-32c761a2cbe2 Meeting this one tonight, anybody have some experience with her?Her account has been deactivated. Anyone get to see her? Carmen, age 22, says she lives in old town.
I started to chat with her, but I am in the burbs and she couldn't drive, so that usually does not work out well.
Her account has been deactivated. Anyone get to see her? Carmen, age 22, says she lives in old town.
Has anyone seen her lately? Care to share your experience. PM is fine. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/30da6371-be29-458e-b07f-4ef792aa9ed1
I posted on the wrong thread accidently. Sharing here as relevant. Some more info from recent meets / interactions:
Alanalynn.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-ac28ccced7f9
Plenty of reports on her. She's batshit, and really pushing for a meet. Starts at 800, down to 500 cfs, 600 bb. If you're into snow she's trying to chuck that into the deal. Not beating the crackhead allegations unfortunately so not going for it.
ANH456.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-24afcf00f349
Short, not as attractive as her pics. Nice, chatty, normal person. Dtf and easy to arrange as others have said here so went with it. Gets super wet, feels great. BBFS 315.
Moriumak.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-363fdc8dd2f4
Scammer. Avoid.
Jen2023.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-1b0356f0be6c
Private pics show her fully, she's pretty hot but asking for 1 k lmao.
Sarahlily.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-74bdb10bc70d
Absolute gem. Get in there before she gets GPS as you guys say. Used to be a bottle girl. Not super super fit but still an amazing body. Great at head, great at sex. Really easy to arrange to come to mine. One thing I noticed though is that she might have been trying to hide being on her period by stuffing TP in there. I don't know if that's a thing tbh but I felt something while fingering her. Ignored it anyway and sex still felt great. Super nervous energy at the start but eased into it. BBBJ + cfs - 300.
Sweet baby.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-e655b0095bfa
Seems DTF, can't get schedules right but planned to come over for 300 - didn't chat details.
M_suss.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b...8-0089132d1429
Avoid, not even really a scammer just extremely flakey and odd. Shame though as exactly my type (alt, weird, skinny).
Angelica.
https://members.seeking.com/messages...2-742413152615
Any info? Seems like a scam profile but acting quite normal over messages.
Starsmafia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-4ddeb279346f
Down to come through for 300 - no details discussed. Was really pushing for same day so felt a bit off.
Brionna.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-7e676837a523
Any info. Trying to get a meet in. Ass looks good.
SensualMuse.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-4b3d98f4e2cc
Nice girl and pics look good. Wants 600-700 for a meet, public first date and cfs if intimate.
Msredhead.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c...c-2dd400d42afe
Wants to dom as per her profile. Thought I might try something different. Even bigger than pics and not as pretty. Didn't go forward with anything after meeting for a quick drink.
Pam.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-85e16610e989
Feels like a scam or catfish. Pushing for a meet at 300 but I think can get her lower. Sent pics on snap and I swear different to the one in profile so didn't move forward.
Any other tips (PM ok) appreciated.
RusselJimmies
06-12-24, 02:25
None of the accounts you linked are active. Did you post this from a time capsule?
I posted on the wrong thread accidently. Sharing here as relevant. Some more info from recent meets / interactions:
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None of the accounts you linked are active. Did you post this from a time capsule?Links are bad, they include.
Links are bad, they include.Looks like he copied and pasted links from another posting, they are incomplete. Try his original post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?2880-Massage-Parlor-Reports&p=6926260 It's down the page, post 34280. Links there work.
Natefarwell
06-15-24, 17:47
All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef4ab09-d002-4fb9-b2c6-127e05f5fa90
None of us can answer your question we don't know you or her from a hole in the wall. Old issues or new behavior doesn't matter either way does it?
But don't be so surprised that a girl who fucks for money was something other than what she pretend to be. Most of us in this game (guys included) have something off kilter about them (some more than others).
I had an SA girl I'd known for 2 years. She lived in another city but would come to Chicago for modeling gigs regularly and we'd always hang out. She'd stay over blah blah just like your girl then one day when I was in the shower she stole my wallet and $1000 in cash I had stashed in a drawer. I never saw it coming. She was tall, beautiful, good head on her shoulders (seemingly anyway) but for whatever reason she decided to do me dirty.
Nothing you can do other than not be shocked about it.
All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef4ab09-d002-4fb9-b2c6-127e05f5fa90
UnsureDarwin
06-16-24, 16:32
All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef4ab09-d002-4fb9-b2c6-127e05f5fa90I am so sorry that you had to experience this but I don't see anything wrong here. It is clear you and her did not clearly discuss boundaries. I do not know your age, but a lot of girls go threw such a phase in life. Clearly, you had grown a connection to her, but I don't think she was trying to deceive you at any point. You did not have to go out to a strip club with a known Party Girl. That is a high energy and very fast environment. Clearly, she just switched into that mode and you were not ready for the duality of the girl you had came to know vs what you saw. Worse things could have happened besides your feelings getting hurt (and I assume you paid for everything. Singles, drinks, drugs etc. That might play a factor as well.).
My advice is to decide if your ok not speaking with her anymore because the spell has been broken, then do it totally. Block everything and when she reaches out agaom (she will in time becauee you clearly are a friend of hers), don't let her back in. Move on.
Or wait a little so you can get out of your emotions and always control every situation you and her are in when you are together. That way, you don't have to run into that version of her. But you will have to tell her you were displeased about that night and the path she seems to be on. Her response to that is hers and hers alone but it will keep you both in good standing foe a while.
Communication is key. But you do have to have a grasp on your own emotions and expections to be transparent with her.
I hope this helped.
I've been on the site for over 10 years. Never an issue with my profile pics. All of the sudden:
"Your Profile suffers from a limited experience.
You currently have no photos that are eligible to become your Primary Profile Photo. As such, you will not be seen, searched or able to send messages until this is resolved.
Please upload a new Primary Profile Photo, or upgrade to premium if you are not ready to add a photo at this time. ".
Money grubbing f**ks!Even if you don't upload a photo, if you DM girls directly they can see your profile. Kinda nice since only the people that I msg can see my whole profile.
All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change."She's not yours, it's just your turn. ".
Party girls, festival girls, girls with lots of tattoo's, any girl that has to do something "fun" all the time is a woman that belongs to the streets. And, if you look at any sugar baby website, most of them are looking for "fun. " If you were looking for anything more, now you know.
Believe it or not, most of the girls on sugar baby websites go in with a disdain for men. They're looking for the unicorn of men. The "paypig. " A paypig is a simp / nice guy who goes on OnlyFans and gives thousand to hundreds of thousands of dollars to a woman he'll never see / touch in real life. These women will have nothing but the utmost contempt for a man like the paypig but will gladly take his money. Nothing enrages and makes her happier to take from than a man whose nature is to submit.
Your description of the drug dealer is actually what those kinds of women want. A bad boy who's charming and manipulative, who couldn't care less about anything but to whatever a man like that cares about. "Fun" girls love to have their emotions pulled. Who is the best at pulling emotions? Bad boys.
If you want to be successful at this game, you better be good at telling a ***** "no". And when you fuck them, always fuck them like it will be your very last time, because it really is.
If anything I said makes you cringe inside, you better stay going to church and pray to god he sends you someone "special".
Saw a recent report on here stating that gift cards don't work anymore. Can anyone else confirm this? I've been using vanilla or egiftcards for years now and have run into a few delays but they always work.
FruitNinja
06-17-24, 17:56
"She's not yours, it's just your turn. ".
Party girls, festival girls, girls with lots of tattoo's, any girl that has to do something "fun" all the time is a woman that belongs to the streets. And, if you look at any sugar baby website, most of them are looking for "fun. " If you were looking for anything more, now you know.
Believe it or not, most of the girls on sugar baby websites go in with a disdain for men. They're looking for the unicorn of men. The "paypig. " A paypig is a simp / nice guy who goes on OnlyFans and gives thousand to hundreds of thousands of dollars to a woman he'll never see / touch in real life. These women will have nothing but the utmost contempt for a man like the paypig but will gladly take his money. Nothing enrages and makes her happier to take from than a man whose nature is to submit.
Your description of the drug dealer is actually what those kinds of women want. A bad boy who's charming and manipulative, who couldn't care less about anything but to whatever a man like that cares about. "Fun" girls love to have their emotions pulled. Who is the best at pulling emotions? Bad boys..Having had a half dozen very long term arrangements their psychology could be studied for years. One thing holds true, they are all damaged goods. We joke about daddy issues but it really is the one constant in all of the ones on SA. Every one of them has had daddy issues, absentee fathers, physically abusive, sexually abusive, or just downright men who were not well emotionally themselves. If you're going to try something that is close to a real relationship you have to have nerves of stone. The sex is usually off the charts and they are very open to experimentation. But you better hold on, they are not only crazy in bed. I could write a book on anti-social and self harming behavior these women exhibit.
FruitNinja
06-17-24, 18:02
None of us can answer your question we don't know you or her from a hole in the wall. Old issues or new behavior doesn't matter either way does it?
But don't be so surprised that a girl who fucks for money was something other than what she pretend to be. Most of us in this game (guys included) have something off kilter about them (some more than others).
I had an SA girl I'd known for 2 years. She lived in another city but would come to Chicago for modeling gigs regularly and we'd always hang out. She'd stay over blah blah just like your girl then one day when I was in the shower she stole my wallet and $1000 in cash I had stashed in a drawer. I never saw it coming. She was tall, beautiful, good head on her shoulders (seemingly anyway) but for whatever reason she decided to do me dirty.
Nothing you can do other than not be shocked about it.If I were interested in her I would have assumed that this was a living for her. At that point it would have probably been a one and done for me. A few times if it was amazing sex. If I'm going to get involved in something more serious it would be with one that is green. Or at least that's been my experience and I have a half dozen or more long terms under my belt. Most were amazing but they tend to run their course.
Having had a half dozen very long term arrangements their psychology could be studied for years. One thing holds true, they are all damaged goods. We joke about daddy issues but it really is the one constant in all of the ones on SA. Every one of them has had daddy issues, absentee fathers, physically abusive, sexually abusive, or just downright men who were not well emotionally themselves. If you're going to try something that is close to a real relationship you have to have nerves of stone. The sex is usually off the charts and they are very open to experimentation. But you better hold on, they are not only crazy in bed. I could write a book on anti-social and self harming behavior these women exhibit.This is often true, but at least three of my former SBs are physicians now and one is on a partner track at a law firm. A bunch of other ones seem to be doing great personally and professionally. Of course some became escorts, strippers or cam girls and a couple are dead.
But the best ones are sexually adventurous and exploring; just like older guys; or are simply pragmatic about being hot and using that to discreetly get money while their hotness is at a peak and their bank account is at a nadir. There are also some that are 18, 19 or 20 and are simply naive.
The ones that are on there for years are, of course, mostly as you describe.
Has anyone ever successfully closed one of these, "I have a friend. " deals?
My take is they are too timid to go at it solo, so they have a buddy. While I'm okay with that and the possibility of a nice ongoing 3 some arrangement, it is an area I don't have as much experience.
Any tips or tricks?
See attached.It's been ages since the last time I saw someone do this way of verification. LOL.
FruitNinja
06-18-24, 18:03
This is often true, but at least three of my former SBs are physicians now and one is on a partner track at a law firm. A bunch of other ones seem to be doing great personally and professionally. Of course some became escorts, strippers or cam girls and a couple are dead.
But the best ones are sexually adventurous and exploring; just like older guys; or are simply pragmatic about being hot and using that to discreetly get money while their hotness is at a peak and their bank account is at a nadir. There are also some that are 18, 19 or 20 and are simply naive.
The ones that are on there for years are, of course, mostly as you describe.I think I've been a positive influence with all the long terms I've had. I always joke that I put quite a few of them through college. In reality I actually did. But I had some amazing ass and some damn adventuresome beauties.
One got a promotion to upper management at a major nationwide insurance company. VP of meta data something. She was hesitating because she didn't want to leave me. I put a quick stop to that. She's married and happy as of the last time we spoke. She did have a big problem with the drink. I hope she worked that out.
It's been ages since the last time I saw someone do this way of verification. LOL.If it ain't broke.
BestDjInOhio
06-20-24, 13:42
Has anyone ever successfully closed one of these, "I have a friend. " deals?
My take is they are too timid to go at it solo, so they have a buddy. While I'm okay with that and the possibility of a nice ongoing 3 some arrangement, it is an area I don't have as much experience.
Any tips or tricks?Yes you could be right or they could be working as a team. Just be careful, don't let them tie you up or blindfold you etc. Make sure that you remain alert and in control. I be done this several times. All have been wonderful experiences. There was one that was a little sketchy, they wanted to blindfold me and tie me up and I'm like nah.
So they said at least put a pillow over my eyes. So hesitantly I agreed, and then as both of them were on the bed the one handed the other something and I took the pillow away and made them show me their hands and the one girl had mace. So at that point party was over. I took it from them and kicked them out of the hotel room.
Luckily I was smart and caught something that could've been disastrous, so just always have your guard up. Be safe and consider that 9/10 times the girls just are more comfortable having a friend and they genuinely want to have a good time.
BestDjInOhio
06-20-24, 13:54
I posted on the wrong thread accidently. Sharing here as relevant. Some more info from recent meets / interactions:
ANH456.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-24afcf00f349
Short, not as attractive as her pics. Nice, chatty, normal person. Dtf and easy to arrange as others have said here so went with it. Gets super wet, feels great. BBFS 315.
Sarahlily.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-74bdb10bc70d
Absolute gem. Get in there before she gets GPS as you guys say. Used to be a bottle girl. Not super super fit but still an amazing body. Great at head, great at sex. Really easy to arrange to come to mine. One thing I noticed though is that she might have been trying to hide being on her period by stuffing TP in there. I don't know if that's a thing tbh but I felt something while fingering her. Ignored it anyway and sex still felt great. Super nervous energy at the start but eased into it. BBBJ + cfs - 300.
Sweet baby.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-e655b0095bfa
Seems DTF, can't get schedules right but planned to come over for 300 - didn't chat details.
Starsmafia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-4ddeb279346f
Down to come through for 300 - no details discussed. Was really pushing for same day so felt a bit off.
These links don't work for me, they working for you? Or did I block them.
BestDjInOhio
06-20-24, 13:56
Has anyone seen her lately? Care to share your experience. PM is fine. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/30da6371-be29-458e-b07f-4ef792aa9ed1I have her number we've talked a couple times. She's definitely is up for meeting, but she's asking 600 And she's not budging to my counter offer of 200 like most all girls do because my logic is on point and they understand it.
She is also into some dom type stuff but that's not me so both those factors have keep me from pulling the trigger.
These links don't work for me, they working for you? Or did I block them.The links don't work and the profiles are deleted besides the first one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8b63812c-f680-4dca-b09c-83a61422d940
$1,000 - To Host in Waukegan. Took a pass.
Yeah 600 aint worth it for someone you never met before and probably have to get a room too. If she hosts and lets you stay a couple of hr then yea. Her description makes it sounds like she is a pro.
I have her number we've talked a couple times. She's definitely is up for meeting, but she's asking 600 And she's not budging to my counter offer of 200 like most all girls do because my logic is on point and they understand it.
She is also into some dom type stuff but that's not me so both those factors have keep me from pulling the trigger.
BestDjInOhio
06-22-24, 16:33
The links don't work and the profiles are deleted besides the first one.Even the first one shows up as profile not available. Care to send a screenshot so I can see?
BestDjInOhio
06-22-24, 16:42
Most are scammers and time wasters but if I'm wrong and your experience was different then chime in.
Bad comms nothing resulted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/caf606a2-ae83-41b0-99b6-3bb52235d53a
Waste of time wants money for just meetup.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7129c980-b634-4eb0-aff7
Non responsive at all once she gave me the number. Figured she may have given me a wrong number, so I messaged her and then crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7ff9b8a-fbc3-4f6d-aedf-17cd8964cde5
Hannah banana.
Slow comms then no comms so I stopped pursuing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/029474b3-8099-48b7-ae52-4b817aea2d26
Scammer don't waste the time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b83f694-53bb-4eda-bd9f-3b097bbb5334
Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4e1689b3-c37d-4d55-a9f3-b199abad8e2b
Condom only, seemed pro. I passed, not into pros on seeking.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7aadaa04-ff0d-40e7-a3f7-1e1f6985707f
Called her out as a scammer and she got an attitude so I dumped that number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c6bbd6fb-e132-470c-b656-7280ee691afb
Says she will give head on the first meeting. She volunteered that info right away. Once hearing that it sounded like she was inexperienced so I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/551e5b3e-5667-4bef-9997-96e46d2fa660
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1c218355-5aa8-489d-886c-a7eb37d385a8
Wants 600 wouldn't negotiate so I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9293fd59-5288-4098-967a-85e16610e989
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e09d158-b1fc-4119-afc2-8550971709c6
Deposit scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cf86e71f-d64b-45c7-ba79-2eac0af792de
Time waster gave wrong number. I did see a positive review on here so who knows.
https://members.seeking.com/member/caba5012-d2dd-46a0-8511-32b0ae641bca
Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07fd7631-3527-4108-b6d6-b7d35834e906
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/faa28121-1ede-403f-aab3-211071d52890
Cashapp scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e416ede5-9031-4db7-bc1e-10d5a88e9f5a
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bedc9b1-e31f-4ba6-84e1-8aae623372a5
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7feec307-c323-4da5-9a42-425ef36c9495
Blocked her once before so I presume it was because she was a scammer. Didn't get any comms from her this time around.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cb414e09-54b7-4d94-aea4-f13907f79195
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/95792a71-5428-4b9e-b91f-4b3d98f4e2cc
Has anyone sucesfully gotten around or reversed a ban on Seeking?
Was on SDM for a bit. Low quality and very few returns to begin with.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-425ef36c9495
Yea she messaged me too and when I replied back to try to meet she never responded. Too bad because she got this baddie look.
Most are scammers and time wasters but if I'm wrong and your experience was different then chime in.
Bad comms nothing resulted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/caf606a2-ae83-41b0-99b6-3bb52235d53a
Waste of time wants money for just meetup.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7129c980-b634-4eb0-aff7
Non responsive at all once she gave me the number. Figured she may have given me a wrong number, so I messaged her and then crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7ff9b8a-fbc3-4f6d-aedf-17cd8964cde5
Hannah banana.
Slow comms then no comms so I stopped pursuing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/029474b3-8099-48b7-ae52-4b817aea2d26
Scammer don't waste the time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b83f694-53bb-4eda-bd9f-3b097bbb5334
Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4e1689b3-c37d-4d55-a9f3-b199abad8e2b
Condom only, seemed pro. I passed, not into pros on seeking.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7aadaa04-ff0d-40e7-a3f7-1e1f6985707f
Called her out as a scammer and she got an attitude so I dumped that number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c6bbd6fb-e132-470c-b656-7280ee691afb
Says she will give head on the first meeting. She volunteered that info right away. Once hearing that it sounded like she was inexperienced so I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/551e5b3e-5667-4bef-9997-96e46d2fa660
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1c218355-5aa8-489d-886c-a7eb37d385a8
Wants 600 wouldn't negotiate so I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9293fd59-5288-4098-967a-85e16610e989
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e09d158-b1fc-4119-afc2-8550971709c6
Deposit scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cf86e71f-d64b-45c7-ba79-2eac0af792de
Time waster gave wrong number. I did see a positive review on here so who knows.
https://members.seeking.com/member/caba5012-d2dd-46a0-8511-32b0ae641bca
Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07fd7631-3527-4108-b6d6-b7d35834e906
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/faa28121-1ede-403f-aab3-211071d52890
Cashapp scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e416ede5-9031-4db7-bc1e-10d5a88e9f5a
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bedc9b1-e31f-4ba6-84e1-8aae623372a5
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7feec307-c323-4da5-9a42-425ef36c9495
Blocked her once before so I presume it was because she was a scammer. Didn't get any comms from her this time around.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cb414e09-54b7-4d94-aea4-f13907f79195
Bad comms.
https://members.seeking.com/member/95792a71-5428-4b9e-b91f-4b3d98f4e2cc
https://members.seeking.com/member/8b63812c-f680-4dca-b09c-83a61422d940
$1,000 - To Host in Waukegan. Took a pass.She had one or two ok reviews several years ago. She was 250 back then I think. I tried to see her multiple times, bad comms and excuses. $1 k is crazy.
Anyone trying out cuddle comfort here in Chicago? Doesn't seem to be many options.
Razorthin2011
06-25-24, 12:01
Setting up an initial meet and greet with this one. Anyone have any intel?
https://members.seeking.com/member/43b29773-26df-4735-a119-ddb7297a0e81
Setting up an initial meet and greet with this one. Anyone have any intel?
https://members.seeking.com/member/43b29773-26df-4735-a119-ddb7297a0e81Nice looking lady. Did a meet and greet. I did not pursue, PPM requirement was a bit high and she's older than how I prefer.
Nice looking lady. Did a meet and greet. I did not pursue, PPM requirement was a bit high and she's older than how I prefer.Curious what she was asking for? I avoided contacting since the 'not a low maintenance baby' plus her age threw off GPS vibes.
Hi, going to meet up with this one Thursday, anyone have any tips? https://members.seeking.com/member/c605ca77-a59c-4d1c-a6d0-4fa6e88b8f03.
WoozerBuck
06-25-24, 20:34
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-425ef36c9495
Yea she messaged me too and when I replied back to try to meet she never responded. Too bad because she got this baddie look.They do not dump scam members, they RECYCLE them.
Silver6933
06-25-24, 21:09
Hi, going to meet up with this one Thursday, anyone have any tips? https://members.seeking.com/member/c605ca77-a59c-4d1c-a6d0-4fa6e88b8f03.Let me know how it goes. I'm interested in meeting her too.
CashDaddy47
06-26-24, 11:37
I'm in Arkansas for the summer and thought I'd see what local talent was around. Absolutely nothing on Seeking, and of course two hundred on Secret Benefits, most fakes or bots. I ran across a profile from a cute twenty-three-year-old looking for platonic. At first, she wanted to just text and talk, I told her she probably wouldn't get much interest, and that she should consider offering lunch and dinner dates and shopping to men. She thought about it a while and said she agreed that would be a good idea. I asked why she shied away from physical contact, she said she had a boyfriend and he said she could have an SD, but no physical stuff. So, I guilt-tripped her saying her body was her's to do with as she pleased, and how men always think they control their girl's pussy. That made her think. I continued to give her advice on how to make her profile more interesting to men. I checked it a few minutes later and she had updated it, but still had "Platonic" in it. She admitted she never had an arrangement before, so I threw out a proposition. I told her the least I could accept was to give her a naked massage, and a nice lunch. She accepted it within seconds, "I'd be down for that, just no sexual stuff at the start" LOL. So, I'm supposed to meet her tomorrow, and now sex is on the table, you just never know.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b354df07-29b8-4c95-9aa3-ed748ea93e99
Seems like a LOT of work so just wondering if anyone has gotten anywhere with her and, if so, what was it like?
DeerChamo1
06-26-24, 18:31
This one is a 40 year old woman looks like a lot of enhancements blocked me after I told her I wasn't interested in paying for a meet and greet. Her profile said bridge, but said that she moved to Munster. Last four digits of her phone number were 8460.
This one is a 40 year old woman looks like a lot of enhancements blocked me after I told her I wasn't interested in paying for a meet and greet. Her profile said bridge, but said that she moved to Munster. Last four digits of her phone number were 8460.She's been around for awhile. That's nutty how she wants to get paid for meet and greet. She's actually a good time in the bedroom. She used to be in my rotation.
DeerChamo1
06-27-24, 08:14
She's been around for awhile. That's nutty how she wants to get paid for meet and greet. She's actually a good time in the bedroom. She used to be in my rotation.She looked like it, was definitely interested in working something out and she blocked me.
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