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Time to start this off in the LA area. What do you all know or want to share?
I've tried contacting a few cuddlers from their site, so far zero connections as the ones who've responded to my inquiries don't host and want to cuddle in my car which I don't find acceptable as it would not be comfortable especially if they offer anything other than cuddling.
Time to start this off in the LA area. What do you all know or want to share?
PussyDestroyr
02-18-24, 03:16
This group is part of what is wrong with America.
Time to start this off in the LA area. What do you all know or want to share?I just discovered this thread. There are active threads in OC and SD. This will develop. My semi recent experience was in the IE, Ontario, she's banned now. There are definitely FS opportunities.
Beaudacious
02-18-24, 21:32
Hi, new member. I am visiting LA and currently trying to schedule sessions with Penlove7, Cec01, Victoria and LillianIsley on Cuddle Companions.
Anybody have intel on these ladies?
I believe Cec01 is LovelaceCC on Cuddle Comfort but unfortunately I'm banned on there.
In return I have intel on about 10 ladies from the Phoenix sites if you are planning. A visit and need info.
Chupacabra
02-19-24, 02:14
This group is part of what is wrong with America.LOL seriously. Hey guys let's think up even more ways to throw money at women for not having sex with us! It'll be great!
Hi, new member. I am visiting LA and currently trying to schedule sessions with Penlove7, Cec01, Victoria and LillianIsley on Cuddle Companions.
Anybody have intel on these ladies?
I believe Cec01 is LovelaceCC on Cuddle Comfort but unfortunately I'm banned on there.
In return I have intel on about 10 ladies from the Phoenix sites if you are planning. A visit and need info.Penlove sounds like one of the dozen names used by a potato-shaped lady in San Fernando Valley who has advertised herself as being 35 for about 15 years. May want to search her # on TER.
I have an session booked with this cute Asian for this afternoon, unfortunately she doesn't host and I can't, so we're going to find a place to park and cuddle. I'm hoping it turns into something more. I'll report back tomorrow.
I'm back after me session with the Professional Cuddler.
First off, communication was easy, she was flexible with the time and even moved our session up an hour to accommodate me.
She wore a very loose fitting romper that was shorts.
I told her I was new at this and she could tell because I was nervous. When I first saw her I thought she was very cute and had a nice figure (it was a little difficult since her rompers was loose).
We met up on the roof of a parking structure and parked away from everyone else and we got in the backseat of my SUV since she has a small sedan.
We cuddled in a couple of positions and it was nice. I had the front windows down and a nice breeze was coming through.
She stroked my legs, arms, chest, neck and shoulders while I did thr same but since I'm new to this I was careful.
I could tell the was fairly busy (large B, small C) and she was wearing a thong. I could feel the edges of her underwear as I was stroking her body. I did manage to grab her butt a little but I didn't do it for long.
Next time I'll try to stoke her check and maybe get some boobage.
It was fun and more like a precursor to sex with out the sex. She did say her roommate is moving out in a couple of weeks so she might start hosting and we would have more space on her bed.
I did ask for the ground rules before starting and she did say she was up for anything but I think she saw my face getting too excited and changed it to almost anything.
It was fun and the hour flew by. I'll probably try it again since it was a new experience and sometimes I don't need to get off, just have some physical contact and good conversation.
I have an session booked with this cute Asian for this afternoon, unfortunately she doesn't host and I can't, so we're going to find a place to park and cuddle. I'm hoping it turns into something more. I'll report back tomorrow.
As stated above I'm fixing a couple of typos I missed.
I'm back after my session with the Professional Cuddler.
First off, communication was easy, she was flexible with the time and even moved our session up an hour to accommodate me.
She wore a very loose fitting romper that was shorts.
I told her I was new at this and she could tell because I was nervous. When I first saw her I thought she was very cute and had a nice figure (it was a little difficult since her romper was loose).
We met up on the roof of a parking structure and parked away from everyone else and we got in the backseat of my SUV since she has a small sedan.
We cuddled in a couple of positions and it was nice. I had the front windows down and a nice breeze was coming through.
She stroked my legs, arms, chest, neck and shoulders while I did thr same but since I'm new to this I was careful.
I could tell the was fairly busy (large B, small C) and she was wearing a thong. I could feel the edges of her underwear as I was stroking her body. I did manage to grab her butt a little but I didn't do it for long.
Next time I'll try to stoke her chest area and maybe get some boobage.
It was fun and more like a precursor to sex with out the sex. She did say her roommate is moving out in a couple of weeks so she might start hosting and we would have more space on her bed.
I did ask for the ground rules before starting and she did say she was up for anything but I think she saw my face getting too excited and changed it to almost anything.
It was fun and the hour flew by. I'll probably try it again since it was a new experience and sometimes I don't need to get off, just have some physical contact and good conversation.
As stated above I'm fixing a couple of typos I missed.What was the financial damage?
If a cuddler rate is 169, high chance right? LOL.
It was $145.
Pricy? Maybe, for me it was worth it as I was able to connect with her with conversation and general touching. Did I want more, absolutely but she didn't offer more. At least not so far.
What was the financial damage?
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03-10-24, 22:24
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BoulderBoy
03-11-24, 20:18
Are you able to share with this is?
I'm back after me session with the Professional Cuddler.
First off, communication was easy, she was flexible with the time and even moved our session up an hour to accommodate me.
She wore a very loose fitting romper that was shorts.
I told her I was new at this and she could tell because I was nervous. When I first saw her I thought she was very cute and had a nice figure (it was a little difficult since her rompers was loose).
We met up on the roof of a parking structure and parked away from everyone else and we got in the backseat of my SUV since she has a small sedan.
We cuddled in a couple of positions and it was nice. I had the front windows down and a nice breeze was coming through.
She stroked my legs, arms, chest, neck and shoulders while I did thr same but since I'm new to this I was careful.
I could tell the was fairly busy (large B, small C) and she was wearing a thong. I could feel the edges of her underwear as I was stroking her body. I did manage to grab her butt a little but I didn't do it for long.
Next time I'll try to stoke her check and maybe get some boobage.
It was fun and more like a precursor to sex with out the sex. She did say her roommate is moving out in a couple of weeks so she might start hosting and we would have more space on her bed.
I did ask for the ground rules before starting and she did say she was up for anything but I think she saw my face getting too excited and changed it to almost anything.
It was fun and the hour flew by. I'll probably try it again since it was a new experience and sometimes I don't need to get off, just have some physical contact and good conversation.
Brazuca1979
03-14-24, 18:48
Have you guys seen her? Do you mind DM me the details of your session? Thanks a lot.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/SenseiHaven
Not going to share name as I think it's definitely YMMV but she had large breasts and nice skin. Her party girl personality came out and I figured I'd push it. Top came off for an uncharge. HJ for an upcharge. No kissing so I won't repeat. It fits a niche if you want a bit more build up. She was up for more just not the first time meeting and for FS I would gather it would be covered and 5 bens. She said she didn't like giving head so another reason I will check out others first.
If a cuddler rate is 169, high chance right? LOL.I think I know who you're talking about and I've been tempted for the same reason LOL.
MountainLover
04-11-24, 14:42
I just saw a thread about Cuddling in another forum and it seems that certain Cuddlers offer more than the standard fare. Without getting blocked, how can you find out in advance, or is it simply go and TOFTT and just see what happens. I took a look at the site, signed on and found three in LA that I though may be worth checking out. One hasn't been on the site in a few months, so it's possible I may have only found two. I really do not care about FS, but if Cuddling lead to breast play and release, I would be super thrilled.
I just saw a thread about Cuddling in another forum and it seems that certain Cuddlers offer more than the standard fare. Without getting blocked, how can you find out in advance, or is it simply go and TOFTT and just see what happens. I took a look at the site, signed on and found three in LA that I though may be worth checking out. One hasn't been on the site in a few months, so it's possible I may have only found two. I really do not care about FS, but if Cuddling lead to breast play and release, I would be super thrilled.Cuddling is very, very YMMV. But in my experience, it is usually far better than anything you'll ever get at an MP. Most of these girls aren't pro sex workers who spread their legs a dozen times a day. The thrill of the chase is fully in play here. There's nothing more satisfying than taking a chance on a cuddler that you picked out from the site then suddenly having her naked in bed next to you.
In my experience (and many would agree) these girls fall into a few different categories. You have some who are basically escorts disguising themselves as "pro cuddlers. " You have some who are "strictly platonic" and won't do anything sexual for anybody. Then in between you have some who are just normal girl next door types who will put out for some but not all clients. They have to like you and the chemistry has to be there. One girl actually admitted to me that she does this at least partially to get laid because she doesn't have a boyfriend. But she won't have sex with every guy she sees. She has to find him attractive and likeable. Those middle category girls are what most of us go out looking for. They're the true unicorns of the cuddling hobby.
One thing I've learned is you can't get too grabby or pushy, or you're likely not going to get anything. In an AMP you can usually just go pull their tops up and pants down and most won't resist. Do that with a cuddler and most will shut down. You have to kind of go with the flow and let things happen naturally. The other thing you have to accept is that you will get blue balls once in a while. I bat about. 750 but I use my gut to pick up on the clues on who will produce the goods and who won't, and my gut is fairly accurate. That, plus exchanging info with other guys can bolster your chances a little. But. Even the times you get blue balled aren't that bad. You're still spending an hour in bed in a private room, usually minimally clothed, with a girl of your choice. That usually can't be too bad even with nothing sexual happening.
I totally agree with these statements, and even if you're respectful and don't cross the boundaries set by the cuddler you can still get blue balls.
I've only cuddled with a couple of they ladies (both Pros) but I haven't gotten anything that would be considered beyond PG13. It's a little bit expensive but the hunt and the newness of the thrill, keeps me in the game for now.
I could spend an extra $50 for CFS (provider) or save $50 for an AMP HE to get a sure thing but this is different.
Grimmy send like he's gotten much better luck since he's gotten them naked which I have been unable to do. I'm curious, how many visits did it take you? And do I need to visit the same ladies again to see if I could take this further? Or do I try more ladies and find one that has extras?
One caveat is that I'm limited to public sessions or try to find a cuddler that hosts. So far I haven't been able to connect with one that hosts so I've been using the backseat of my car in isolated areas, which limits the action.
Cuddling is very, very YMMV. But in my experience, it is usually far better than anything you'll ever get at an MP. Most of these girls aren't pro sex workers who spread their legs a dozen times a day. The thrill of the chase is fully in play here. There's nothing more satisfying than taking a chance on a cuddler that you picked out from the site then suddenly having her naked in bed next to you.
In my experience (and many would agree) these girls fall into a few different categories. You have some who are basically escorts disguising themselves as "pro cuddlers. " You have some who are "strictly platonic" and won't do anything sexual for anybody. Then in between you have some who are just normal girl next door types who will put out for some but not all clients. They have to like you and the chemistry has to be there. One girl actually admitted to me that she does this at least partially to get laid because she doesn't have a boyfriend. But she won't have sex with every guy she sees. She has to find him attractive and likeable. Those middle category girls are what most of us go out looking for. They're the true unicorns of the cuddling hobby.
One thing I've learned is you can't get too grabby or pushy, or you're likely not going to get anything. In an AMP you can usually just go pull their tops up and pants down and most won't resist. Do that with a cuddler and most will shut down. You have to kind of go with the flow and let things happen naturally. The other thing you have to accept is that you will get blue balls once in a while. I bat about. 750 but I use my gut to pick up on the clues on who will produce the goods and who won't, and my gut is fairly accurate. That, plus exchanging info with other guys can bolster your chances a little. But. Even the times you get blue balled aren't that bad. You're still spending an hour in bed in a private room, usually minimally clothed, with a girl of your choice. That usually can't be too bad even with nothing sexual happening.
I totally agree with these statements, and even if you're respectful and don't cross the boundaries set by the cuddler you can still get blue balls.
I've only cuddled with a couple of they ladies (both Pros) but I haven't gotten anything that would be considered beyond PG13. It's a little bit expensive but the hunt and the newness of the thrill, keeps me in the game for now.
I could spend an extra $50 for CFS (provider) or save $50 for an AMP HE to get a sure thing but this is different.
Grimmy send like he's gotten much better luck since he's gotten them naked which I have been unable to do. I'm curious, how many visits did it take you? And do I need to visit the same ladies again to see if I could take this further? Or do I try more ladies and find one that has extras?
One caveat is that I'm limited to public sessions or try to find a cuddler that hosts. So far I haven't been able to connect with one that hosts so I've been using the backseat of my car in isolated areas, which limits the action.I banged the first cuddler I ever saw, and 2 of the first 3. I've seen 8 so far. Banged 4 of them, got HJ from 2, and 2 blue balls. Of the 4 I banged, 2 of them were more like sex workers. Not that exciting, but they weren't expensive either and the sex was still better than anything I've ever had in an AMP. The other two were girl next door types that I just hit it off with and the sex happened spontaneously.
Of the two blue balls, one was a really hot girl. She spent the hour laying on top of me but wouldn't let me touch much. That was a bummer but it wasn't too bad either. The other was when I was traveling in another state. That one was funny because she kept talking about how important it is to keep these sessions platonic. But while we were having that discussion we were spooning, I was squeezing one tit with one hand (OTC), and I had my other hand down the front of her panties. I think if I saw her again I'd probably be able to get her clothes off.
BoulderBoy
04-17-24, 21:51
I banged the first cuddler I ever saw, and 2 of the first 3. I've seen 8 so far. Banged 4 of them, got HJ from 2, and 2 blue balls. Of the 4 I banged, 2 of them were more like sex workers...Amazing. Would you be able to share which cuddlers are open to this?
FarFarAway
04-18-24, 09:58
Amazing. Would you be able to share which cuddlers are open to this?Please read up on this thread, and the CC thread for Orange County. We sort of mutually agreed not to divulge this sort of info, as there is a small pool of cuddlers, and if guys pimp out one on this site, the result will send her running for the hills. It is also true that Grimmy finds they aren't sex workers and what one dude gets is not a good predictor of what someone else will get.
Please read up on this thread, and the CC thread for Orange County. We sort of mutually agreed not to divulge this sort of info, as there is a small pool of cuddlers, and if guys pimp out one on this site, the result will send her running for the hills. It is also true that Grimmy finds they aren't sex workers and what one dude gets is not a good predictor of what someone else will get.Not into this sort of thing. But I agree with Farfaraway. There are certain unspoken rules when it comes to this type of girl. This rule is also used when finding a non-pro. These girls are not escorts / pros normally. And are not meant to be passed around like a ho. As Grimmy23 said YMMV greatly. If these girls info is being given out which is essentially pimping them out. Then the girl will start to have a bunch of mongers trying to tear her door down. And then some numnut will tell her he got her info saying she puts out from this site. A white knight / captsaveaho trying to score brownie points. And then that girl is burned and will not want to see anyone.
This isn't cockblocking. A pro / escort you can usually share that type of info on. Kind of free advertising for them. But I've seen even pros not like having their info shared on sites like this without their permission. So these girls being cuddlers not pros. Well I've said what can happen.
Best thing to do is follow Grimmy23's example and words. And venture out with a cuddler that calls your attention and tread carefully as he said. YMMV!
Not into this sort of thing. But I agree with Farfaraway. There are certain unspoken rules when it comes to this type of girl. This rule is also used when finding a non-pro. These girls are not escorts / pros normally. And are not meant to be passed around like a ho. As Grimmy23 said YMMV greatly. If these girls info is being given out which is essentially pimping them out. Then the girl will start to have a bunch of mongers trying to tear her door down. And then some numnut will tell her he got her info saying she puts out from this site. A white knight / captsaveaho trying to score brownie points. And then that girl is burned and will not want to see anyone.
This isn't cockblocking. A pro / escort you can usually share that type of info on. Kind of free advertising for them. But I've seen even pros not like having their info shared on sites like this without their permission. So these girls being cuddlers not pros. Well I've said what can happen.
Best thing to do is follow Grimmy23's example and words. And venture out with a cuddler that calls your attention and tread carefully as he said. YMMV!I think with the YMMV theme, I'm comfortable sharing if the cuddle is platonic. I mean if an experience is by the rules, I'm not sharing any prohibited details. However the cuddler May find me to be a terrible match and someone else may be a great match.
I am personally good if cuddles begin and end as cuddles.
Any cuddler recommendations? I'm fine with just platonic cuddles but with a slim beauty and affordable thanks!
I think with the YMMV theme, I'm comfortable sharing if the cuddle is platonic. I mean if an experience is by the rules, I'm not sharing any prohibited details. However the cuddler May find me to be a terrible match and someone else may be a great match.
I am personally good if cuddles begin and end as cuddles.I look at it this way. In any given cuddling situation, you're alone with the girl of your choosing for an hour or more. Usually it's in a hotel room. There are a small handful of girls who host in their homes but that's rare. You're cuddled up together on a bed, making close body to body contact, and again depending on the girl, usually wearing minimal clothing. Some girls wear more than others but the typical norm is t-shirt and shorts. All of the ingredients are there for stuff to happen. Even if you're cuddling with a "strictly platonic" girl, you're in a situation where it doesn't take a whole heck of a lot to cause things to heat up if there's chemistry between you. That's what happened to me with a couple of them. I didn't go in expecting to have sex. I didn't go in groping or trying to get my hands down her pants in the first 5 minutes. It was just a relaxing, sort of romantic setting, we were having a nice platonic cuddle, and next thing you know we're kissing and clothes start coming off. That's the way things usually go in the cuddling world. Be a gentleman, don't get grabby or pushy, have zero expectations of extras, and if you play your cards right and the planets align properly you can have the time of your life.
One cuddler I was with (please don't PM to ask who she was because she's no longer active on the site) hosted in a hotel that she paid for. She got the room just for our session. All she asked for was a 2 hour booking at $100/ hr to cover her room costs. She showed me the room bill. It was $135 for a 6-hour room rental. The CC website charges the cuddlers a 15% booking fee. So for two hours of cuddling with a complete stranger in a hotel room she netted $35, and we ended up having sex. We chatted about it afterwards and she said she was fine with that and she doesn't do it for the money. Basically she has a bunch of extended family living in her house and they drive her crazy. She got an escape to some solitude for half a day in a hotel room that I paid for, got to go use the pool and hot tub, and had $35 left over for a nice lunch. And as an added bonus, she got laid. She doesn't have a BF so this is how she gets her sexual needs met, but only if she likes the guy. I know she ended up booking another session the same day in the same room. Someone asked to book her the same day and she had a room, so why not? But she didn't have sex with that guy (I know this because the guy just happened to PM me here later). Not that she didn't like him or anything, but we went at it pretty hard and heavy a few hours earlier and she probably just wasn't in the mood. That's how things go. These aren't sex workers. They're "normal" girls doing cuddling as a little side hustle or for a little escape, and if they feel like doing more than just cuddling the opportunity is certainly there.
That being said, there are a few on there who are either known escorts who also advertise on escort sites, and there are a few who are pretty much automatic at giving extras. But strangely enough, that's not what most of us who are seasoned cuddlers want. We look for the girl next door who is a little bit of a challenge to get naked. It's incredibly satisfying when it happens.
MountainLover
04-19-24, 13:52
Hello All,
After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.
Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.
Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.
Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.
Hello All,
After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.
Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.
Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.
Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.Great write up. I agree with much of what you said. I also can say that this connection can open up doors to more than just the cuddle. I find if you sign up for two hours, and you play it correct, it can lead to more options.
LM.
Hello All,
Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.
Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.Thanks for writing about your experience. What is cool is we have people from all levels of the hobby in this thread from AMP to Kgirls to sugaring and Grimmy brought all of us together like the pied piper.
The best part of CC is exactly what it is meant for: cuddling and having an emotional connection with a woman.
Disappointment will be had if someone is coming into this expecting a cheap release or expecting a hot young provider. If these are the goals there are way more efficient and cheaper ways to get your rocks off.
Thanks for writing about your experience. What is cool is we have people from all levels of the hobby in this thread from AMP to Kgirls to sugaring and Grimmy brought all of us together like the pied piper.
The best part of CC is exactly what it is meant for: cuddling and having an emotional connection with a woman.
Disappointment will be had if someone is coming into this expecting a cheap release or expecting a hot young provider. If these are the goals there are way more efficient and cheaper ways to get your rocks off.Very well said.
If I were to categorize, there are probably 4 different types of girls in the pro cuddling world.
25% are legit, platonic only cuddlers. You won't get any extras with them. Clothes stay on (both theirs and yours), no putting hands under the clothes, no kissing, no touching intimate parts either over or under the clothes. They're what they are at face value, strictly pro cuddlers.
On the other end of the spectrum, I'd estimate 15% are escorts disguising themselves as pro cuddlers. Their legs spread for any guy who shows up with a wad of cash. They're usually pretty easy to spot. Some of them even advertise on escort sites or on Seeking.
Of the remaining 60%, those are what I'd call the "normal girls" who you just don't know about.
- 30% start with the intention of "just a cuddle session" but will do extras if she likes you and the mood is right.
- 30% do this because they aren't in relationships and need their own sexual needs met. This doesn't mean they'll bang all of their clients, but they can make some extra cash on the side and easily get laid when they come across a guy they like.
Now going back to that 25% of platonic only cuddlers, I firmly believe that it's completely possible for stuff to happen even with them. As I've said before, the ingredients are there. You're alone in a private room, minimally clothed, in a bed, making close body to body contact for at least an hour. It doesn't take a whole lot for a spark to get ignited that causes clothes to fall off. The chances of it happening with one of these 25% girls is pretty small, but it does happen.
As the previous poster said, if you want a sure thing, go to an MP. Any one of us can walk into any AMP right now and get a HJ, BJ, or FS very easily. It's just a matter of bringing the right amount of tip money. But how satisfying is that? You got your balls drained, good for you. But with the cuddlers it's more like sex after a first date when you're able to make it happen. The sex might be more spectacular with an escort, but with a cuddler you have the satisfaction of getting it from someone who doesn't give it up for any guy to show up with the right amount of cash.
Hello All,
After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.
Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.
Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.
Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.Just signed up and specified an older age range than is represented in the 'local' listing on the site. Immediately got a pro cuddler for $160/ hr who was 12 years younger than my lower threshold. I suspect it's an upsell / escort opportunity, but I'm holding out for someone over 45, just because I'm hoping she'll be open to greater physical intimacy. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. My impression of the median CC female is a significantly overweight 30-something.
Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.
Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.I would strongly encourage keeping nitty gritty details about cuddlers in DM. The reason being is that mods on that site are known to monitor activity here. Girls have been banned from the site for knowingly providing extras. Additionally, these aren't pro sex workers, so we don't want them to get flooded with monger requests. The ones that get too much pub here almost always disappear in fairly short order.
As for the SO thing, I've had it come up. It often does, not in every session but in more than half for me. I'm a happily married guy and wear a ring. Most of them are oblivious to it. They seem to understand that a guy can be very happy in his relationship but still have a subpar sex life. And if it's not about sex, the platonic cuddlers understand that sometimes people need space and time to hang out with someone else for an hour or two. I've just never found it to be a problem.
People ask me for recommendations all the time. Which cuddler should I see? I have a fairly sizable list of intel that I've collected either personally or from others who have reported to me since I started the OC thread. I'm happy to share. However, my typical request is please don't DM and ask who I would recommend. That's a very difficult thing to answer because cuddling is such a YMMV game. I hate to be the guy who says go see so and so because she puts out, and then you see her and get nothing. I also don't know what any given guy might be looking for. What I ask is that you find a few that you might be interested in and I'll tell you if I have anything on them. That works out a lot better.
Finally, I can't restate this enough times. Go in hoping for what you want but expecting absolutely nothing but a nice platonic cuddle. Be a gentleman. Don't get grabby or pushy. Don't try sticking hands inside her clothes in the first couple minutes. Be squeaky clean, freshly showered, teeth brushed right before the session and breath smelling fresh. Just be a nice guy that the girl would legitimately want to cuddle with if she wasn't being paid for it. Do all of those things and your chances of success are much higher. You'll leave with blue balls once in a while. That’s a given in the cuddling world. For me that happens about 1/4 of the time. But even the blue balls sessions are almost always very pleasant. You just spent an hour alone cuddled up in bed with a girl that you chose. How bad can that be? This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you don’t get it. In cuddling, you’re going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid it’s more like sex after a first date and it’s much more fulfilling than anything you’ll ever get in an AMP.
Gidden Lade
04-24-24, 20:56
This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you dont get it. In cuddling, youre going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid its more like sex after a first date and its much more fulfilling than anything youll ever get in an AMP.Sounds like the far outer fringe of mongering; hovering in the gray area between mongering & actual dating. None of the "guarantees"(to use the term loosely) of mongering, but without the hassles of dating civilians. Definitely sounds intriguing.
If any of you have some cuddler recs pm me please.
Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.
OrangeGoku
05-11-24, 12:53
I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.
I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.I actually agree pretty strongly with Grimmy's post a few more down, that the specifics are better off kept to DMs for these girls. If the names and deeds are placed here on the board for all to see, those girls are going to have a lot of trouble from either the CC admins or from overly demanding mongers who don't understand that this is a massive YMMV situation. Public postings here are just going to chase away the girls or get them banned. These aren't massage parlor girls or common escorts. They don't owe you sex. Just take a look at what has happened in some of those other cities that OrangeGoku references. The girls that were named on these boards with descriptions of sex acts are 90% banned (by CC moderators for breaking the site rules) or deactivated (self-selecting out of this because of all the trouble). Let's not repeat those mistakes here in LA.
Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.She's back, feel free to dm me if you have any info. I got a couple girls I've seen in the past few mth, I can share info on. No slam dunks as YMMV, but got some play.
I'm interested.
1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?
2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?
I'm interested.
1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?
2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?1. By CC rules, cuddling in underwear is not allowed. Minimum attire is t-shirt and shorts, with boxers not being considered as appropriate shorts. However, in practice, at least 80% of the girls will bend the rules. I've cuddled in underwear and I've cuddled naked more than once. Most of the time for me it starts in underwear and the undies come off after a few minutes.
My standard routine if the girl is hosting is to walk into her hosting site (usually a hotel room, but on rare occasion her home). Once I'm inside and we have the introductory hug out of the way (which is pretty typical), I'll say something like "oh crap, I left my cuddle shorts in the car. Should I go down and get them or can I just cuddle in my underwear?" I'll have a pair of thin nylon running shorts in my car just in case - the type with the mesh liner kind of like a swimsuit that doesn't need underwear. It may be luck of the draw but I've never once had a girl tell me to go get the shorts. The typical response is something along the lines of "whatever makes you comfortable. " If she says that it's a license to take my pants off, and I'll probably even take my shirt off at that point and be wearing only undies to start.
If you're hosting, the "I left my cuddle clothes in the car" trick doesn't work. In those cases I'm in a hotel room and I answer the door wearing a t-shirt and my thin running shorts. The cuddle will start from there. A lot of times the girl will bring cuddle clothes to change into. She'll go into the bathroom to change and there's a good chance she may come out wearing something sexy or skimpy. I've had girls come out wearing skimpy tops with no bra underneath and shorts with half of their ass hanging out. I've had girls come out wearing lingerie. I've also had girls come out wearing a t shirt and thick sweat pants, and I've had girls just take their shirt and pants off right there in my full view to start the cuddle in bra and panties. You get the idea - it's all over the place. But if she comes out wearing lingerie, or something skimpy, or undresses in front of me, rest assured I'm going to have the rest of those clothes on the floor pretty quickly.
2. YMMV in this area. Every girl is different. I'd say the most typical scenario is you start cuddling and making close contact. Your arms around each other or maybe you're spooning. Once you're comfortable, let your hands wander OTC a little. By this I don't mean go grabbing body parts. Just sort of gently graze OTC. If she's a by the rules girl she will quickly stop you and ask that you don't touch her there. If she doesn't brush off some light OTC touches you can get a little more assertive by going up the shirt and / or down the pants. If you're able to touch any intimate body parts under the clothes it's game on and things will usually escalate pretty quickly and naturally from there.
Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.
Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.
PriscillaM
07-03-24, 12:30
Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.
Cuddle with that.
Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.
Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.
Cuddle with that.
Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.
If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?
I say he's talking about pros.
I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.
Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?
I say he's talking about pros.
I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.Yeah, all pros. I've never seen a non-pro.
Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.I agree 100% If you play your cards right, are respectful and go for a 2 hour then I feel you have the best chance for extras. I have had 10 out of 12 give extras with 8 FS.
Good luck in the chase.
I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.
https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/hws/d/los-angeles-your-professional-cuddlist/7763816264.html
PriscillaM
07-07-24, 08:34
I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.
https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/hws/d/los-angeles-your-professional-cuddlist/7763816264.htmlI would expect to hear lots of Aerosmith in your head for a long time after the session.
Gidden Lade
07-07-24, 18:59
I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.
https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/hws/d/los-angeles-your-professional-cuddlist/7763816264.htmlShe mentions platonic & non-sexual twice in the ad. Also wants half before meeting up. Sounds like a big gamble & even if she's legit you may not get much other than an actual cuddle. Of course, you never know. Looking forward to seeing what you decide & how it turns out. Good luck brother!
I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.
https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/hws/d/los-angeles-your-professional-cuddlist/7763816264.htmlShe's on CC and from talking with her via text she seems strictly platonic.
Have been on CC for a while and the quality of girls have definitely gone down. If any of you got a chance to see Erica, Molly, Quinn etc. Hit me up. If you're up for sharing hit me up.
Davtturl01
07-08-24, 23:08
I agree 100% If you play your cards right, are respectful and go for a 2 hour then I feel you have the best chance for extras. I have had 10 out of 12 give extras with 8 FS.
Good luck in the chase.I'm new to the site and to the game! Have a cc account and trying to learn.
I didn't see this question asked / answered (hope I didn't miss it):
What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras.
- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?
- If I read reviews and see "Set clear boundaries" or something to that effect in the positive review this is a sign it's platonic only??
- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter.
- What about attractiveness level? Those that had bad luck, did you find you were aiming too high?
- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts?
- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc).
- In cases where girls were (as Grimmy23 put it) "more like sex workers", does that mean they would upsell? If so, can anybody share what an expected upsell cost would be? (or is this too varied or too secretive for open conversation?
- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?
I'm going to be visiting LA soon and thought I might try there and hoping to maximize my odds.
I'll be happy if I just get a good experience cuddling romantically but without any "completion".
I have lots more questions.
But will be fine if it ends up just cuddling with a nice girl.
What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras. Pics showing a bit of cleavage / bikini pics.
- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?Not always, I'll usually look for a more strict message like "Any request for sexual activity will be reported" "If you're looking for anything sexual look elsewhere " etc.
- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter. Some have told me they're put off by older men and won't go further that platonic but it depends a lot on the individual.
- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts? Not always.
- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc). Chances of them being fake are pretty low if they're pros. If they ask for a deposit or something without karma just skip.
- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?Nope. They usually request one before meeting up though.
I'm new to the site and to the game! Have a cc account and trying to learn.
I didn't see this question asked / answered (hope I didn't miss it):
What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras.
- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?
- If I read reviews and see "Set clear boundaries" or something to that effect in the positive review this is a sign it's platonic only??
- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter.
- What about attractiveness level? Those that had bad luck, did you find you were aiming too high?
- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts?
- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc).
- In cases where girls were (as Grimmy23 put it) "more like sex workers", does that mean they would upsell? If so, can anybody share what an expected upsell cost would be? (or is this too varied or too secretive for open conversation?
- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?
I'm going to be visiting LA soon and thought I might try there and hoping to maximize my odds.
I'll be happy if I just get a good experience cuddling romantically but without any "completion".
I have lots more questions.
But will be fine if it ends up just cuddling with a nice girl.What spaaa4 says is pretty spot on. That's the thing with cuddling. We all try to look at profiles and find the hidden clues. The thing is there are very few hidden clues, and the ones you read into profiles aren't always accurate.
Most girls say "platonic only. " Don't take it at face value. I've had some pretty steamy sex with "platonic only" girls and have been blue balled by ones who didn't say that.
Sexy pics. A lot of focus on butt, cleavage, skimpy outfits etc are USUALLY a good sign, but not always. Some of the highest mileage sessions I’ve had have been with girls who had very PG looking profiles. Some of the worst sessions I’ve had have been with girls who had pics of themselves in lingerie or skimpy bikinis.
Few of these girls are sure bets. Strange as it sounds, that's what makes cuddling interesting. Most of us don't want sure bets. We want the girl next door who doesn't spread her legs for 10 guys a day for a living. If we want a sure bet we can go to an AMP and get laid anytime we want very easily. Most of us are into cuddling because we got tired of the AMP scene. The thrll of the chase brings a fun and interesting new spin into the hobby.
The best thing is trust your gut. If you see a few you like, try to get some intel. Ask around on here (preferably by DM to some of the mongers who have experience with cuddling so that we don't publicly out the girls too much). Understand that even with intel it's usually not a sure bet, but you can increase your odds substantially. I’ve gotten extras and even FS from girls who aren’t widely known to provide extras. I’ve gotten nothing from girls who are well known extras providers. A lot about cuddling is how well you vibe with the girl.
Always look at it this way. You’re in a private room with a girl, in a bed (usually), quite often minimally clothed, all while making close body contact. You have your arms around each other. You’re spooning. Hands naturally end up on each other’s bodies. All of the ingredients are there for anything to happen, even with a girl who doesn’t include extras as part of her routine. If she likes you it doesn’t take a huge stretch of the imagination to see how clothes can start falling off.
Davtturl01
07-10-24, 18:55
What spaaa4 says is pretty spot on. That's the thing with cuddling. We all try to look at profiles and find the hidden clues. The thing is there are very few hidden clues, and the ones you read into profiles aren't always accurate.
Most girls say "platonic only. " Don't take it at face value. I've had some pretty steamy sex with "platonic only" girls and have been blue balled by ones who didn't say that.Thanks for the info. I did (after my original post) find the thread in the Orange County group that had much of these points made so sorry for any duplicated effort.
I'd still be interested any info on upsell interactions. It seems like must people finding wins here found wins w / o any upsell? Or have you encountered upsell offers and if so what were the price ranges quoted? It seems like there probably are "pros" among the cuddle-pros and it seems like these would not be giving away for free. (I've been to a number of FBSM providers over the years and some were very good experiences. It seems like these are the types that might branch into cuddling).
In any case, it seems like my trip to L. A. Will not have time for diving into a cuddling experience so I won't delve into asking for specifics on any particular cuddlers (maybe next trip!
I do travel to the San Fran area quite a bit and so I'll probably try first there, but there is not much cuddle discussion in the bay area forums. Does anybody on this thread have any info (DM) for good providers there? And again thanks for your time and responses. I'll try to pay it back with updates when I have data to contribute.
Thanks for the info. I did (after my original post) find the thread in the Orange County group that had much of these points made so sorry for any duplicated effort.
I'd still be interested any info on upsell interactions. It seems like must people finding wins here found wins w / o any upsell? Or have you encountered upsell offers and if so what were the price ranges quoted? It seems like there probably are "pros" among the cuddle-pros and it seems like these would not be giving away for free. (I've been to a number of FBSM providers over the years and some were very good experiences. It seems like these are the types that might branch into cuddling).
In any case, it seems like my trip to L. A. Will not have time for diving into a cuddling experience so I won't delve into asking for specifics on any particular cuddlers (maybe next trip!
I do travel to the San Fran area quite a bit and so I'll probably try first there, but there is not much cuddle discussion in the bay area forums. Does anybody on this thread have any info (DM) for good providers there? And again thanks for your time and responses. I'll try to pay it back with updates when I have data to contribute.Yes, there are pros on there. They're not the majority by any means but if you reverse search their profile pics some of them will lead you right to their escort ads. That's not what the majority of us who use cuddles want. If we want a sure thing we'll go to an AMP or hire an escort.
Upsells are all over the board. Some will do more without asking for more. Some will flat out give you a menu of services with prices once you're with them. Some will ask for a paid second hour. A small handful have even been known to offer freebies on a second date if they like you. There really is no standard.
Kaphio0918
07-11-24, 22:49
Carms.
TYI.
Davtturl01
07-14-24, 11:14
Carms.
TYI.Just for FYI: she has an IMDB page (don't think the rules allow me to post her name?) and advertises reiki and the like here highvibepriestess. Love.
OrangeGoku
07-14-24, 11:42
Do any of these chicks have OF?
I'm tired orf paying money to cuddle and get no action. Can we atleast see the goodies.
DM me some links.
Thanks guys.
Goku.
I messaged her awhile back, no reply. I've always wondered why the non-pros even start an account since they don't ever reply. I've reached out to a dozen or so and no answer.
I don't have a profile photo but when I message them I send a selfie with the message.
Hmmmmmm.
Carms.
TYI.
Just noticed she was banned, doubt any extras were being provided. Probably more about trying to skirt paying fees. I know she lied about her location trying to get a travel fee from me.
Yeah I noticed that too, she told me she lived in Glendale and we met up a few times. She always seemed to be in a rush.
She was a bit odd and stand-offish.
Just noticed she was banned, doubt any extras were being provided. Probably more about trying to skirt paying fees. I know she lied about her location trying to get a travel fee from me.
Yeah I noticed that too, she told me she lived in Glendale and we met up a few times. She always seemed to be in a rush.
She was a bit odd and stand-offish.She told me Torrance LOL.
Hollaplaya
07-30-24, 00:48
Does anybody any that do anr or can point me in the right direction?
Does anybody any that do anr or can point me in the right direction?Urban Dictionary defines as Adult Nursing Relationship?
She told me Torrance LOL.Embrace is an enigma. Most guys have reported that she's awkward and standoffish. A few guys have reported that she'll give HJ but won't take any clothes off. A small handful have reported that she'll get topless and do "a little more" than HJ. A lot of people have reported that she's "very weird" and always in a rush, or even that she's a little crazy. It's almost as if she has some sort of mental disorder and it depends on the day you get her and what kind of mood she's in. She blocked me for no reason. All I did was respond to her random message asking me if I'd like to book a session with her tomorrow, and I said I'd love to but I'm not free tomorrow. How about another day? That in itself is a little (or a lot) strange, and I know I'm not the only person she's done that to. So make what you want of it. She might be good for you but more than likely won't be.
Embrace is an enigma. Most guys have reported that she's awkward and standoffish. A few guys have reported that she'll give HJ but won't take any clothes off. A small handful have reported that she'll get topless and do "a little more" than HJ. A lot of people have reported that she's "very weird" and always in a rush, or even that she's a little crazy. It's almost as if she has some sort of mental disorder and it depends on the day you get her and what kind of mood she's in. She blocked me for no reason. All I did was respond to her random message asking me if I'd like to book a session with her tomorrow, and I said I'd love to but I'm not free tomorrow. How about another day? That in itself is a little (or a lot) strange, and I know I'm not the only person she's done that to. So make what you want of it. She might be good for you but more than likely won't be.EE was banned this week on CC.
EE was banned this week on CC.I wonder if it's because of the comments here.
TrevorMatters
07-31-24, 02:31
I wonder if it's because of the comments here.It's not because of the comments here.
CC has forums where the admins post and they have discussed this website. Their position is that if someone posts on here that "MsXYZ gave me a HJ" that is not evidence of a rule violation because the poster could be lying.
People usually get banned for trying to skirt fees, giving out contact info without a confirmed session, manipulating the fees / hours etc. Of course if they messaged on CC that they might give out an HJ, that is a different story. But these are all things the admins there can verify on their site.
Granted if I went on this site and posted "MsXYZ gave me a HJ", then the CC admins might look at her account for some other rule violation.
And of course with CC, with a lot of the ladies your mileage may vary depending if they like you / feel comfortable with you / are having a good day / etc, so posting you got a HJ from someone isn't a guarantee that the next guy is going to get one. I have a lot of ladies from the site text me before a session reminding me to shower and wear clean clothes. Seems like a no-brainer but they wouldn't be telling me that unless there be some nasty dudes on the site!
I wonder if it's because of the comments here.Perhaps, but I sense it would be more that she was arranging cuddles outside of CC thus denying the site their 15% cut.
I wonder if it's because of the comments here.She isn't banned. She's on timeout. That's a temporary ban and it could happen for any number of reasons. Typically it's when they have a payment issue, like their credit card is expired or invalid so they failed to pay a booking fee that was due. They'll reinstate her account when she fixes the issue if that's the case. They can also do a timeout as a warning for something like exchanging contact info before officially booking a session.
The other thing is I have it on very good authority from someone who knows the inner workings of CC that they won't ban a cuddler based on discussions here. This is circumstantial evidence - you can come on here and say that you saw Cuddler XYZ and fucked her brains out, but what is said here isn't proof that it happened. But if they have suspicions that CuddlerXYZ is circumventing the CC booking system and taking bookings through other means to avoid paying their fees, and they come here and see a post that confirms their suspicions, that is evidence that they might use to ban them. Bottom line is be extremely careful about what details you share about any cuddler in public forum so that we don't get our favorite girls in trouble.
She isn't banned. She's on timeout. That's a temporary ban and it could happen for any number of reasons. Typically it's when they have a payment issue, like their credit card is expired or invalid so they failed to pay a booking fee that was due.
The other thing is I have it on very good authority from someone who knows the inner workings of CC that they won't ban a cuddler based on discussions here. This is circumstantial evidence - you can come on here and say that you saw Cuddler XYZ and fucked her brains out, but what is said here isn't proof that it happened. But if they have suspicions that CuddlerXYZ is circumventing the CC booking system and taking bookings through other means to avoid paying their fees, and they come here and see a post that confirms their suspicions, that is evidence that they might use to ban them. Bottom line is be extremely careful about what details you share about any cuddler in public forum so that we don't get our favorite girls in trouble.All that seems to indeed line up with the rules of CC but at the end of the day the site moderators cannot or will not ban a Pro for violating some of the rules: non approved clothing / naked etc OR they can't even ban then on comments here or other forums but they can and will ban them if CC site is not spreceiving the 15% or if a PRO arranges a cuddle without booking it thru the site. It's all about the Money.
All that seems to indeed line up with the rules of CC but at the end of the day the site moderators cannot or will not ban a Pro for violating some of the rules: non approved clothing / naked etc OR they can't even ban then on comments here or other forums but they can and will ban them if CC site is not spreceiving the 15% or if a PRO arranges a cuddle without booking it thru the site. It's all about the Money.They'd ban them for cuddling naked or giving extras if they had proof they were doing that. That's the kicker. How do they get proof that a cuddler did a session naked and / or provided extras? That's extremely difficult to do. They could directly message you and ask if the cuddler got naked for the session, but even if you said yes her clothes went flying across the room 30 seconds after she walked in the door, and a minute later my dick was in her mouth, that's still not proof. I suppose if the mods messaged half a dozen different guys and they all openly admitted to her providing extras then they might have reason to ban her, but that seems pretty unlikely. Most of the time it's about money. People trying to circumvent the booking system to avoid paying their booking fees.
AmgPhilly63
08-02-24, 16:32
EE was banned this week on CC.Good riddance. She's the lamest cuddler on there.
She's back to active status, she wasn't banned I think she's having money issues and she was on timeout for non payment.
Good riddance. She's the lamest cuddler on there.
She's back to active status, she wasn't banned I think she's having money issues and she was on timeout for non payment.There must be something about her and EE seems to have more mentions than any other cuddler. It seems that she lives in 10 cities in LA and those that have arranged a sesh with her all have varying reports back: varying from 'no action other than a cuddle' to 'she has to be on the spectrum. ' I'd take one for the team but it seems that all of you have covered her already.
LakerFan90
08-09-24, 12:18
Anyone have any info on her?
AmgPhilly63
08-09-24, 12:31
There must be something about her and EE seems to have more mentions than any other cuddler. It seems that she lives in 10 cities in LA and those that have arranged a sesh with her all have varying reports back: varying from 'no action other than a cuddle' to 'she has to be on the spectrum. ' I'd take one for the team but it seems that all of you have covered her already.I mean you can try her if you want. It's just lame as hell I can't really explain. She told me she has autism and is doing this to feel comfortable with "more sensory" LOL.
There seems to be better options with us a host. How are you guys hosting? Was thinking Dayuse but booking a room for a possible blueballs or even cancelation wouldn't make financial sense to me. Was going to book one today and got canceled on.
There seems to be better options with us a host. How are you guys hosting? Was thinking Dayuse but booking a room for a possible blueballs or even cancelation wouldn't make financial sense to me. Was going to book one today and got canceled on.I feel most people just host in their own place. You'll only get charged for Dayuse when they hand you the room keys, but it drives up a single cuddle to over two hundred plus. Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs.
FarFarAway
08-10-24, 00:27
There seems to be better options with us a host. How are you guys hosting? Was thinking Dayuse but booking a room for a possible blueballs or even cancelation wouldn't make financial sense to me. Was going to book one today and got canceled on.You can cancel at the last minute on Dayuse. No charge.
For me, though, I don't ever want to get the room, too much risk of a paper trail.
Ended up seeing my canceled date. Popped my cuddle cherry and ended up being a nice session with good release. It was a known cuddler that someone recommended so thank you. A bit steep for what I got but I see how price and mix of variety of thrill of the dice roll can be intriguing.
After leaving I hit up a regular of mine, picked her up and hit the motel for some action. Came home two loads lighter and a bit beat but definitely can't complain about life.
AmgPhilly63
08-10-24, 16:58
Anyone try Amandy7?This girl is a whackjob too. Sure, she will take her top off and cuddle that way but she won't do anything else and is a germophobe at that. So if you are wearing underwear while cuddling she will constantly look at your boxers to see if theres any wet spots. She doesn't like cum, precum or any of that stuff LOL.
NeedAheRealBad
08-11-24, 11:11
Any info on this one? She visited LA before and looks like she's back.
This girl is a whackjob too. Sure, she will take her top off and cuddle that way but she won't do anything else and is a germophobe at that. So if you are wearing underwear while cuddling she will constantly look at your boxers to see if theres any wet spots. She doesn't like cum, precum or any of that stuff LOL.She looks hot.
TrevorMatters
08-13-24, 22:44
There seems to be better options with us a host. How are you guys hosting? Was thinking Dayuse but booking a room for a possible blueballs or even cancelation wouldn't make financial sense to me. Was going to book one today and got canceled on.I rent a place for several days. Location is close to either work or home, that way I can get there easily. And fill in the cuddle appointments. Yes you are going to get cancellations, but I've found over the years that as long as you don't do it during the flu season, cancellations will be minimal.
Also book on the site and get contact info. Text confirming the time / location of the cuddle asap. Follow up the day of to confirm. If you get a cancellation be ready to hit the site and find backup.
I think I'm figuring out this "cancelation" pattern, but I'm sure you guys are picking up on it.
Anyway, any info on magzzz or lizziex would be nice. Tried to book lizie but no luck.
WiseTraveler
08-14-24, 16:34
I think I'm figuring out this "cancelation" pattern, but I'm sure you guys are picking up on it.
Anyway, any info on magzzz or lizziex would be nice. Tried to book lizie but no luck.Yeah, get ready for some warnings / ban hammers coming out. It will mainly be providers trying to avoid paying but if there's a pattern of booking share #s cancellations or the latest, 30 min sessions, the owner / mods will take action.
Side note: While you can cancel last minute on DayUse hotels / chains may eventually block you from booking.
WiseTraveler
08-14-24, 17:51
I rent a place for several days. Location is close to either work or home, that way I can get there easily. And fill in the cuddle appointments. Yes you are going to get cancellations, but I've found over the years that as long as you don't do it during the flu season, cancellations will be minimal.
Also book on the site and get contact info. Text confirming the time / location of the cuddle asap. Follow up the day of to confirm. If you get a cancellation be ready to hit the site and find backup.The more you can interact (where it's welcomed / invited) the less chance there is of a last min cancellation. If it's 'yeah, I can do Sat 2 pm. See you sweetie! Just send me address day before' and that's it? 50/50 at best. If you exchange 10+ messages / move to text and get them excited about a session? 95% chance it will happen.
Fewer than 15 texts and the cuddler is going to pick me up at LAX so we can talk more before driving 40 min to my hotel. Connection matters.
I also try to have a plan B, C, etc. with indie massage or something else but there's a point where you take the L and just relax. Use the $$ you would have spent and have a great meal/drinks or buy something fun instead. Chasing that O dragon on short notice leads to bad shit.
JayKrez619
08-17-24, 20:33
Pm me if you have intel on her. I have intel to share as well.
MountainLover
08-18-24, 09:10
Hello all,
I'm headed back to LA / Thousand Oaks, where I usually come in once a month. I have seen Geminigemstone in the past and have a great few Cuddles, although it came to the point where I'd like it to go further, but I am respecting her by not trying to push an agenda unless I was given an nod. I'd be very grateful to anyone who can share some info on Diocho and NattyLuv who have caught my eye. I even saw someone named Lollypop3000 who states she is strictly platonic, although that's a very descriptive name to choose. Any private leads to a Cuddler who offers more would be greatly appreciated as I'd like to get a more flushed out experience this time. Thank you in advance!
TrevorMatters
08-19-24, 09:48
Hello all,
I'm headed back to LA / Thousand Oaks, where I usually come in once a month. I have seen Geminigemstone in the past and have a great few Cuddles, although it came to the point where I'd like it to go further, but I am respecting her by not trying to push an agenda unless I was given an nod. I'd be very grateful to anyone who can share some info on Diocho and NattyLuv who have caught my eye. I even saw someone named Lollypop3000 who states she is strictly platonic, although that's a very descriptive name to choose. Any private leads to a Cuddler who offers more would be greatly appreciated as I'd like to get a more flushed out experience this time. Thank you in advance!I'll PM you.
But I will say avoid NattyLuv (catfish) and go with Diocho.
Hey,
I'm new to this thread. Where do you go about to find cuddlers? Any info would help. Thanks!
Hey,
I'm new to this thread. Where do you go about to find cuddlers? Any info would help. Thanks!Cuddle Comfort.
HollywoodGuy
08-19-24, 17:58
Cuddle Comfort.I tried CC a couple years ago. No luck. Girls werent all that. The couple I did try to contact never even got back to me. But vegas is much smaller than L. A.
Cuddle Comfort.I just checked it out earlier. Not many girls in LA. There's one girl that looks alright in but another user posted she doesn't reply to messages. It's probably a fake user LOL.
Hey guys I am travelling out to LA for work next week, I was wondering if anyone has intel on any cuddler ladies out here that are worth booking with. I like petite women over curvy. Feel free to PM, I've been cuddling in AZ and San Diego before so I am happy to share intel or other intel as well, thanks in advance!
In the LA area have any of your ever had a session with Jannet? She has been on the site as a pro for 6 years with no Karma. Inquiring minds wonder hmmmmmm.
Anyone got any info on her? Nice body and pics but profile makes me think she might actually be platonic.
Anyone got any info on her? Nice body and pics but profile makes me think she might actually be platonic.She mentions parties. So hard to say.
HoundDog99
09-15-24, 10:32
I'm new to the cuddle scene and appreciate all the advice and info in this forum, so thanks!
I love this girl's looks (assuming it's a real picture LOL). Any info on her would be most appreciated.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/goldenjade
I'll of course be glad to share any info if I see her.
Thanks again!
What's up, fellas. Do you guys have any intel on "Xoxothatgirla"? Formerly "Anniexox", I think. She is a 10, looks-wise. But that $75 deposit request on her page, has me a bit skittish.
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