Cuddle Comfort / Pro Cuddlers

[Gidden Lade]

This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you dont get it. In cuddling, youre going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid its more like sex after a first date and its much more fulfilling than anything youll ever get in an AMP.

Sounds like the far outer fringe of mongering; hovering in the gray area between mongering & actual dating. None of the "guarantees"(to use the term loosely) of mongering, but without the hassles of dating civilians. Definitely sounds intriguing.

[Grimmy23]

Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.

I would strongly encourage keeping nitty gritty details about cuddlers in DM. The reason being is that mods on that site are known to monitor activity here. Girls have been banned from the site for knowingly providing extras. Additionally, these aren't pro sex workers, so we don't want them to get flooded with monger requests. The ones that get too much pub here almost always disappear in fairly short order.

As for the SO thing, I've had it come up. It often does, not in every session but in more than half for me. I'm a happily married guy and wear a ring. Most of them are oblivious to it. They seem to understand that a guy can be very happy in his relationship but still have a subpar sex life. And if it's not about sex, the platonic cuddlers understand that sometimes people need space and time to hang out with someone else for an hour or two. I've just never found it to be a problem.

People ask me for recommendations all the time. Which cuddler should I see? I have a fairly sizable list of intel that I've collected either personally or from others who have reported to me since I started the OC thread. I'm happy to share. However, my typical request is please don't DM and ask who I would recommend. That's a very difficult thing to answer because cuddling is such a YMMV game. I hate to be the guy who says go see so and so because she puts out, and then you see her and get nothing. I also don't know what any given guy might be looking for. What I ask is that you find a few that you might be interested in and I'll tell you if I have anything on them. That works out a lot better.

Finally, I can't restate this enough times. Go in hoping for what you want but expecting absolutely nothing but a nice platonic cuddle. Be a gentleman. Don't get grabby or pushy. Don't try sticking hands inside her clothes in the first couple minutes. Be squeaky clean, freshly showered, teeth brushed right before the session and breath smelling fresh. Just be a nice guy that the girl would legitimately want to cuddle with if she wasn't being paid for it. Do all of those things and your chances of success are much higher. You'll leave with blue balls once in a while. That’s a given in the cuddling world. For me that happens about 1/4 of the time. But even the blue balls sessions are almost always very pleasant. You just spent an hour alone cuddled up in bed with a girl that you chose. How bad can that be? This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you don’t get it. In cuddling, you’re going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid it’s more like sex after a first date and it’s much more fulfilling than anything you’ll ever get in an AMP.

[Ghost323]

Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.

[Willie23]

Hello All,

After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.

Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.

Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.

Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.

Just signed up and specified an older age range than is represented in the 'local' listing on the site. Immediately got a pro cuddler for $160/ hr who was 12 years younger than my lower threshold. I suspect it's an upsell / escort opportunity, but I'm holding out for someone over 45, just because I'm hoping she'll be open to greater physical intimacy. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. My impression of the median CC female is a significantly overweight 30-something.

[Grimmy23]

Thanks for writing about your experience. What is cool is we have people from all levels of the hobby in this thread from AMP to Kgirls to sugaring and Grimmy brought all of us together like the pied piper.

The best part of CC is exactly what it is meant for: cuddling and having an emotional connection with a woman.

Disappointment will be had if someone is coming into this expecting a cheap release or expecting a hot young provider. If these are the goals there are way more efficient and cheaper ways to get your rocks off.

Very well said.

If I were to categorize, there are probably 4 different types of girls in the pro cuddling world.

25% are legit, platonic only cuddlers. You won't get any extras with them. Clothes stay on (both theirs and yours), no putting hands under the clothes, no kissing, no touching intimate parts either over or under the clothes. They're what they are at face value, strictly pro cuddlers.

On the other end of the spectrum, I'd estimate 15% are escorts disguising themselves as pro cuddlers. Their legs spread for any guy who shows up with a wad of cash. They're usually pretty easy to spot. Some of them even advertise on escort sites or on Seeking.

Of the remaining 60%, those are what I'd call the "normal girls" who you just don't know about.

- 30% start with the intention of "just a cuddle session" but will do extras if she likes you and the mood is right.

- 30% do this because they aren't in relationships and need their own sexual needs met. This doesn't mean they'll bang all of their clients, but they can make some extra cash on the side and easily get laid when they come across a guy they like.

Now going back to that 25% of platonic only cuddlers, I firmly believe that it's completely possible for stuff to happen even with them. As I've said before, the ingredients are there. You're alone in a private room, minimally clothed, in a bed, making close body to body contact for at least an hour. It doesn't take a whole lot for a spark to get ignited that causes clothes to fall off. The chances of it happening with one of these 25% girls is pretty small, but it does happen.

As the previous poster said, if you want a sure thing, go to an MP. Any one of us can walk into any AMP right now and get a HJ, BJ, or FS very easily. It's just a matter of bringing the right amount of tip money. But how satisfying is that? You got your balls drained, good for you. But with the cuddlers it's more like sex after a first date when you're able to make it happen. The sex might be more spectacular with an escort, but with a cuddler you have the satisfaction of getting it from someone who doesn't give it up for any guy to show up with the right amount of cash.

[TnaStylez]

Hello All,

Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.

Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.

Thanks for writing about your experience. What is cool is we have people from all levels of the hobby in this thread from AMP to Kgirls to sugaring and Grimmy brought all of us together like the pied piper.

The best part of CC is exactly what it is meant for: cuddling and having an emotional connection with a woman.

Disappointment will be had if someone is coming into this expecting a cheap release or expecting a hot young provider. If these are the goals there are way more efficient and cheaper ways to get your rocks off.

[LuccaMac]

Hello All,

After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.

Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.

Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.

Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.

Great write up. I agree with much of what you said. I also can say that this connection can open up doors to more than just the cuddle. I find if you sign up for two hours, and you play it correct, it can lead to more options.

LM.

[MountainLover]

Hello All,

After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.

Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.

Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.

Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.

[Grimmy23]

I think with the YMMV theme, I'm comfortable sharing if the cuddle is platonic. I mean if an experience is by the rules, I'm not sharing any prohibited details. However the cuddler May find me to be a terrible match and someone else may be a great match.

I am personally good if cuddles begin and end as cuddles.

I look at it this way. In any given cuddling situation, you're alone with the girl of your choosing for an hour or more. Usually it's in a hotel room. There are a small handful of girls who host in their homes but that's rare. You're cuddled up together on a bed, making close body to body contact, and again depending on the girl, usually wearing minimal clothing. Some girls wear more than others but the typical norm is t-shirt and shorts. All of the ingredients are there for stuff to happen. Even if you're cuddling with a "strictly platonic" girl, you're in a situation where it doesn't take a whole heck of a lot to cause things to heat up if there's chemistry between you. That's what happened to me with a couple of them. I didn't go in expecting to have sex. I didn't go in groping or trying to get my hands down her pants in the first 5 minutes. It was just a relaxing, sort of romantic setting, we were having a nice platonic cuddle, and next thing you know we're kissing and clothes start coming off. That's the way things usually go in the cuddling world. Be a gentleman, don't get grabby or pushy, have zero expectations of extras, and if you play your cards right and the planets align properly you can have the time of your life.

One cuddler I was with (please don't PM to ask who she was because she's no longer active on the site) hosted in a hotel that she paid for. She got the room just for our session. All she asked for was a 2 hour booking at $100/ hr to cover her room costs. She showed me the room bill. It was $135 for a 6-hour room rental. The CC website charges the cuddlers a 15% booking fee. So for two hours of cuddling with a complete stranger in a hotel room she netted $35, and we ended up having sex. We chatted about it afterwards and she said she was fine with that and she doesn't do it for the money. Basically she has a bunch of extended family living in her house and they drive her crazy. She got an escape to some solitude for half a day in a hotel room that I paid for, got to go use the pool and hot tub, and had $35 left over for a nice lunch. And as an added bonus, she got laid. She doesn't have a BF so this is how she gets her sexual needs met, but only if she likes the guy. I know she ended up booking another session the same day in the same room. Someone asked to book her the same day and she had a room, so why not? But she didn't have sex with that guy (I know this because the guy just happened to PM me here later). Not that she didn't like him or anything, but we went at it pretty hard and heavy a few hours earlier and she probably just wasn't in the mood. That's how things go. These aren't sex workers. They're "normal" girls doing cuddling as a little side hustle or for a little escape, and if they feel like doing more than just cuddling the opportunity is certainly there.

That being said, there are a few on there who are either known escorts who also advertise on escort sites, and there are a few who are pretty much automatic at giving extras. But strangely enough, that's not what most of us who are seasoned cuddlers want. We look for the girl next door who is a little bit of a challenge to get naked. It's incredibly satisfying when it happens.

[HiKeke]

Any cuddler recommendations? I'm fine with just platonic cuddles but with a slim beauty and affordable thanks!

[DigMeSome]

Not into this sort of thing. But I agree with Farfaraway. There are certain unspoken rules when it comes to this type of girl. This rule is also used when finding a non-pro. These girls are not escorts / pros normally. And are not meant to be passed around like a ho. As Grimmy23 said YMMV greatly. If these girls info is being given out which is essentially pimping them out. Then the girl will start to have a bunch of mongers trying to tear her door down. And then some numnut will tell her he got her info saying she puts out from this site. A white knight / captsaveaho trying to score brownie points. And then that girl is burned and will not want to see anyone.

This isn't cockblocking. A pro / escort you can usually share that type of info on. Kind of free advertising for them. But I've seen even pros not like having their info shared on sites like this without their permission. So these girls being cuddlers not pros. Well I've said what can happen.

Best thing to do is follow Grimmy23's example and words. And venture out with a cuddler that calls your attention and tread carefully as he said. YMMV!

I think with the YMMV theme, I'm comfortable sharing if the cuddle is platonic. I mean if an experience is by the rules, I'm not sharing any prohibited details. However the cuddler May find me to be a terrible match and someone else may be a great match.

I am personally good if cuddles begin and end as cuddles.

[Lexx1]

Please read up on this thread, and the CC thread for Orange County. We sort of mutually agreed not to divulge this sort of info, as there is a small pool of cuddlers, and if guys pimp out one on this site, the result will send her running for the hills. It is also true that Grimmy finds they aren't sex workers and what one dude gets is not a good predictor of what someone else will get.

Not into this sort of thing. But I agree with Farfaraway. There are certain unspoken rules when it comes to this type of girl. This rule is also used when finding a non-pro. These girls are not escorts / pros normally. And are not meant to be passed around like a ho. As Grimmy23 said YMMV greatly. If these girls info is being given out which is essentially pimping them out. Then the girl will start to have a bunch of mongers trying to tear her door down. And then some numnut will tell her he got her info saying she puts out from this site. A white knight / captsaveaho trying to score brownie points. And then that girl is burned and will not want to see anyone.

This isn't cockblocking. A pro / escort you can usually share that type of info on. Kind of free advertising for them. But I've seen even pros not like having their info shared on sites like this without their permission. So these girls being cuddlers not pros. Well I've said what can happen.

Best thing to do is follow Grimmy23's example and words. And venture out with a cuddler that calls your attention and tread carefully as he said. YMMV!

[FarFarAway]

Amazing. Would you be able to share which cuddlers are open to this?

Please read up on this thread, and the CC thread for Orange County. We sort of mutually agreed not to divulge this sort of info, as there is a small pool of cuddlers, and if guys pimp out one on this site, the result will send her running for the hills. It is also true that Grimmy finds they aren't sex workers and what one dude gets is not a good predictor of what someone else will get.

[BoulderBoy]

I banged the first cuddler I ever saw, and 2 of the first 3. I've seen 8 so far. Banged 4 of them, got HJ from 2, and 2 blue balls. Of the 4 I banged, 2 of them were more like sex workers...

Amazing. Would you be able to share which cuddlers are open to this?

[Grimmy23]

I totally agree with these statements, and even if you're respectful and don't cross the boundaries set by the cuddler you can still get blue balls.

I've only cuddled with a couple of they ladies (both Pros) but I haven't gotten anything that would be considered beyond PG13. It's a little bit expensive but the hunt and the newness of the thrill, keeps me in the game for now.

I could spend an extra $50 for CFS (provider) or save $50 for an AMP HE to get a sure thing but this is different.

Grimmy send like he's gotten much better luck since he's gotten them naked which I have been unable to do. I'm curious, how many visits did it take you? And do I need to visit the same ladies again to see if I could take this further? Or do I try more ladies and find one that has extras?

One caveat is that I'm limited to public sessions or try to find a cuddler that hosts. So far I haven't been able to connect with one that hosts so I've been using the backseat of my car in isolated areas, which limits the action.

I banged the first cuddler I ever saw, and 2 of the first 3. I've seen 8 so far. Banged 4 of them, got HJ from 2, and 2 blue balls. Of the 4 I banged, 2 of them were more like sex workers. Not that exciting, but they weren't expensive either and the sex was still better than anything I've ever had in an AMP. The other two were girl next door types that I just hit it off with and the sex happened spontaneously.

Of the two blue balls, one was a really hot girl. She spent the hour laying on top of me but wouldn't let me touch much. That was a bummer but it wasn't too bad either. The other was when I was traveling in another state. That one was funny because she kept talking about how important it is to keep these sessions platonic. But while we were having that discussion we were spooning, I was squeezing one tit with one hand (OTC), and I had my other hand down the front of her panties. I think if I saw her again I'd probably be able to get her clothes off.