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06-03-24 23:12 #1682
Posts: 17Originally Posted by NashvilleBob [View Original Post]
https://www.cdc.gov/sti/about/about-...-oral-sex.html
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art...std-risk-chart
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06-03-24 08:46 #1681
Posts: 13Originally Posted by Nass1000 [View Original Post]
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06-02-24 17:54 #1680
Posts: 44Same Question
Originally Posted by Nass1000 [View Original Post]
No judgment, just curious since that concern has kept me from even trying covered FS (just stick to L1 and CBJ).
How risky is CFS with these women or escorts on Tryst and Eros, e. G. ?
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06-02-24 08:49 #1679
Posts: 2How do you keep safe?
With all the DFK / DATY how do y'all keep safe? I'm always afraid to catch a disease since these girls meet like 5-10 guys a day and perform oral. Anyone really not bothered by it?
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05-18-24 14:18 #1678
Posts: 456Originally Posted by FreeWally [View Original Post]
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05-18-24 12:44 #1677
Posts: 372Originally Posted by BBNovice2018 [View Original Post]
Genital herpes is in 1 in 6 adults so while there is a small stigma it is something you'll probably get if you have very many partners. It transmits on genital skin contact, and does not require a sore to transmit though that increases the risk a lot.
Part of the problem is it can be suspicious if you are in a very long relationship and transmit it to your partner years after being "monogamous". If you simply got it earlier in life, didn't know, and transmitted it to a new partner, you can have an adult conversation explaining that and be truthful. It gets tricky if you know you have herpes and now you have a new partner. I suppose many guys play dumb, but some people say it is much better to be upfront and honest if this is a serious relationship you are entering.
Mentally, the worst scenario is actually that you do not already have genital herpes but plan to start fucking 50 women over 10 years (and just don't know it yet). That was me 10 years ago. Then you never know when the day will come that you get it, then your partner whether current or future. There is a stress element to thinking about it happening, but then it happens. I actually stopped worrying about getting herpes, once I already had it! Life is funny in that way.
Again, people panic and suffer when they first get herpes because you don't know how it will turn out. You pray even if you aren't religious. For those who have genital herpes and their partner has not yet gotten it or noticed, it is just another Sword of Damocles in the life of "married and mongering".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damocles
It can be stressful to live knowing you could get caught any day. In the most extreme case, the most elegant solution is not have sex with your partner if you bb. Maybe get treated if you finally decide to go back. But not an option for everyone. It is hard but you should ideally be at peace with mongering or have a realistic compromise about the risks you'll take, what your limits are, and how you'll stay safe.
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05-18-24 11:32 #1676
Posts: 198CFS BBFS and herpes
I thought herpes can be transmitted whether it's CFS or BBFS so it makes no difference.
Originally Posted by AsianAssEater [View Original Post]
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05-18-24 11:28 #1675
Posts: 198Yup it's probably already everywhere.
If he caught it then there's probably few others caught it too and they have already spread it around. It's very likely quite a few girls has caught it too. Fortunately with this psa, there's something we can do to reduce the risk. I am going to get tested and going with cfs for a while.
Originally Posted by Vulcan1009 [View Original Post]
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05-12-24 13:16 #1674
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05-12-24 02:19 #1673
Posts: 2747Different levels
There are a wide range of STDs. Some are for a lifetime. Grasp that. Just like, say, getting an amputation is for a lifetime. That is what getting a retroviral infection is. Regardless of whether you have a SO now, this isn't going to make it easy to find partners in the future. You should check out the demographics of viral STDs that you can find on the CDC website. They tell you the girls in the US least likely to have an infection of those things you don't want to have.
IK we aren't supposed to discuss here whether people do or don't, or should or should not, use protection, for various acts. So I won't.
I have a bowl buddy who vets a girl carefully before bedding her. Tests both ways. However, he ends up in committed relationships w / them, monogamous even, and knows what he is doing. Years long relationships. Better yet, he gives them no sugar (but pays for dates like any self-respecting man would). IK of no one else who has his skills however. And a SO who is so lenient, and in the dark.
You never know what you will catch. I FCed two different married women who swore to me they hadn't cheated on their hubs, and hadn't had sex in years. One I didn't even have intercourse with. Both were asian. After our dates, I found myself w / GI distress. Turns out in both cases I had picked up a parasite. Had to go on flagyl. Now thankfully, the parasite isn't considered a STD, so this did not raise alarm bells. Whew! Still wasnt pleasant.
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05-11-24 21:50 #1672
Posts: 410Originally Posted by Murrican [View Original Post]
And I know other dudes that ask as well in this game. Pretty sure a bunch of dudes here in this thread do as well. Especially guys with SOs.
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05-11-24 21:19 #1671
Posts: 246Originally Posted by Lexx1 [View Original Post]
Now, for the 99% of guys who seek bare back from girls they pay for sex, and say things like they can tell a girl is clean because she's new, she said so, she smells good, I looked closely when I was eating her out, and on and on. Those guys are one misjudged bare back away from a lifetime of viral suppression drugs and awkward conversations. And it's not worth it. Way better to play the long game here.
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05-11-24 17:48 #1670
Posts: 410Originally Posted by OrangeGoku [View Original Post]
As for what other states are the best I can't provide input. But most dudes will usually say CA, SoCal. Can't beat our sunny state, LAs melting pot of honeys in all ethnicities and in surrounding counties / cities. Most that come from other states to visit here. Say we got the best girls. You just got to pay the price sometimes if that's what you're looking for.
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04-22-24 17:49 #1669
Posts: 164Originally Posted by OldChineseGuy [View Original Post]
One may as well have gotten HIV if you end up with something like an incurable strain of the clap. It can and does happen, ALL THE TIME. Without violating HIPAA, I've seen maybe 50 or so cases with individuals with incurable strains of chlamydia specifically during my early clinical hour days. A few years back but it was primarily found in solicitors who would do this sort of strategy or take only half the prescribed dosage because it makes you feel like shit.
Even if you do take it regularly and it "kills" the baby strain before it takes hold, you're wiping out your good bacteria as well and it may make you susceptible to other diseases. It's just silly to do this and internet science that makes this so prevalent. You're genuinely better off doing a thorough salt water rinse 3 x day for anything oral related than doing the after-session doxy gig. The risk reward is better and at least you'll have a shot of killing something in the cradle rather than risking life-altering conditions.
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04-16-24 17:33 #1668
Posts: 743Pre-treating with antibiotics
Originally Posted by Castle1 [View Original Post]